Am I being Paranoid ?

I’ll try to keep this short.

Recently I’ve been thinking that my mom is a bit egotistical and a bit dismissive when she is working

But the reason she was dismissive to me is cause she gets super focus when she works

Although she can be dismissive whenever she is on the phone too

But I can’t shake the feeling that she’s unconscious think she’s better then anyone else.

I just think that I might just be frustrated because I’m just starting to help her and it can be hard to accept change when you get so comfortable having a routine.

that’s why I need some advice on how to discern if what my feelings are valid or not.