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Want to connect with another autistic woman

User Profile: FlickerofLight
FlickerofLight October 13th, 2025

Hi everyone,

So my therapist told me I should try to find and talk with another autistic woman as I'm trying to get my diagnosis. As most books and other thing talking about autism are written by men, it's hard to identify and find tips to handle better the way my brain works.

Let's chat!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 14th, 2025

@FlickerofLight

Welcome to seven cups 💜 🥰 

I hope you find someone to connect with 🥰

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User Profile: curiouscalico
curiouscalico October 27th, 2025

@FlickerofLight

For starters, there are several autistic women on YouTube who have channels covering the experiences of being an autistic woman. Here are the two I mainly watch: 

https://www.youtube.com/@thethoughtspot222/videos 

https://www.youtube.com/@imautisticnowwhat/videos


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User Profile: FlickerofLight
FlickerofLight OP October 27th, 2025

Thank you very much

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User Profile: aquaOwl9393
aquaOwl9393 October 28th, 2025

I'm genderfluid, but I'm afab and have sisters so I tend do fit in women's spaces well. I'm also in the process of trying to get a diagnosis, I'd love to be friends

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User Profile: FlickerofLight
FlickerofLight OP October 31st, 2025

Hi! Thanks for your response, that warms up my heart! I don't know quite yet how 7cups works, how can we chat?

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User Profile: warmheartedPine8288
warmheartedPine8288 November 8th, 2025

Hi,

I'm sorry i didn't see your reply- how rubbish. Its not easy to see in the thread (!at least from my android).

So, im bto sure how to message on one peivate thread. It works if your start a chat with a listener.

I'll take a look now and se eid i can find a way, but needed you to know I missed yout response- hope your doing ok x

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User Profile: FlickerofLight
FlickerofLight OP November 9th, 2025

That's ok! Hope you're doing good as well!

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User Profile: warmheartedPine8288
warmheartedPine8288 October 29th, 2025

Hi,

I could donwith autsitc female friends - im currently trying to manage stimming habits if of any intetrst to talk/think about

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User Profile: FlickerofLight
FlickerofLight OP October 31st, 2025

Hi! Thanks for your response, that warms up my heart! I don't know quite yet how 7cups works, how can we chat?

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User Profile: warmheartedPine8288
warmheartedPine8288 October 29th, 2025

Hi,

I could donwith autsitc female friends - im currently trying to manage stimming habits if of any intetrst to talk/think about

User Profile: Priyapjw1
Priyapjw1 November 5th, 2025

@FlickerofLightConnecting with another autistic woman sounds like a great idea, especially since experiences can vary so much and hearing from someone who understands your perspective can be really helpful. There are online communities and forums specifically for autistic women where you can share experiences, ask questions, and find support. If you want, I can help you find some places to start or suggest some conversation topics. Would you like that?

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User Profile: warmheartedPine8288
warmheartedPine8288 November 8th, 2025

Sure, yes pls, link me up to some threads. And if you happen yo know a way that a non listener can connect with another non listener on this site that would be helpful too. Looks like it may be impossible though :-/

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User Profile: FlickerofLight
FlickerofLight OP November 9th, 2025

Oh that's a shame 😢

Hope you're doing good!

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User Profile: sabeyesofblue3535
sabeyesofblue3535 November 8th, 2025

@FlickerofLight

Hello and welcome.  Just wanted to let you know that I am available to talk with you but I am not autistic.  I will share with you that my adult son, almost 46 years old, was just diagnosed with autism last year when he was 45.  I have been trying to learn more about autism so I can understand better and so I can help my son.  If you have not heard of it there is a website called Autism Speaks that you may like to check out.  It also has a support group as part of the site.  

I hope you are able to find more autistic women who you can talk with.  One thing that I have learned is that autism is more common in boys and men than females.

I wish you the very best.

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User Profile: FlickerofLight
FlickerofLight OP November 9th, 2025

Hi! Thank you, I'll check that out!

Good luck with your son! I'm sure you'll do a great job at learning about that to be able to help!

Actualy, that's what people though before, but lately, researchers tend to think that autism is as present in women as in men. The thing is that autism in women in often more hidden so there are more undiagnosed women, or even women that don't know even they have it, because our representation of autisme in the one of male autism.

Wish you and your son the best as well!

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