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In short, I want to tell someone. I have a husband who beats me all the time, and I also have 2 small children. I have nowhere to go to get a divorce. I don't have parents, and I don't have a job.
@diplomaticKite2704
No soy alguien para comentar tu situación, pero tengo algunos consejos, busca muy dentro de ti quien eres (suena un poco tonto pero es bastante importante) no dejes que esa situación por la que estas pasando te haga perderte a ti misma. Intenta buscar todos los contactos posibles de ayuda (gobierno, instituciones, comunidades o incluso iglesias), reúne todas las pruebas posibles de los maltratos (videos, fotos, conversaciones) pero siempre asegúrate que el no se de cuenta y por ultimo siempre recuerda que tu no eres el problema.
Your situation is very difficult, it has to be very tough for you. I must remind you that there is a solution for your problem you must find. I know now it feels impossible but please, have hope.
Did you tried to contact authorities in relation to this problem ? Is there something I can do to help you ?
@diplomaticKite2704
Where do you live? if you live in US, you could put your child into federal care program for child protection against domestic violent but if you are from third world country then this might be very harsh.
First, learn to be independent or keep being beaten up by your husband.
I mean you can cook, you can sell food.
you can clean, you can be cleaner.
you can do, I don't know what else but it could be usefull cause many hard labour doesn't need specialist skill.
Second, if you have 2 child then you should teach them to work from very early age if your husband doesn't want to accept them or you don't want them to get beaten by your husband.
Yeah, reality is hard for very poor country. so, be tough.
*It is your choice, to be keep beaten up or learn to be independent.
Third, it is only available if you have pretty face and good body then you could ofc work, you know....
It will earn you a decent ammount of money & a way out but it is not for all ppl just for female with a good face and good body.
This is the reality, even some male done this often call gigolo but it well it because they aren't capable to work as a man thus they get shortcut.
* so, just be realistic.
Work what you could work, Being indepent or keep being beaten by your husband.