REJECTION SENSITIVITY
How do you cope with fear of rejection? It always haunts me if someone secretly hates me i overead and when someone doesn't speak to me but talks to everyone else it just eats me i feel like it's really the end of everything and it keeps ticking me. It's horrible I keep thinking and thinking how do i cope with it? Please share
@YougotthisNaush
honestly everyone I know has gone through similar thoughts. but if someone does not talk to you why do we assume it is us ...
really I did not talk to some when i was shy and did not know many people some people are so self-involved they do not even know they ignored someone ... i think somehow we take too much personally.
@YougotthisNaush Someone on social media went out of their way to get a certain number of rejections and documented it. I can't remember who it was but it is viral. Maybe over 100 rejections.
In my personal experience, I hate when people talk to everyone else but never talk to me. I feel ostracised. Everyone has friends but me, and somehow they think I have friends when really nobody likes or wants me. Nobody ever talks to me, and it always has to be me who reaches out first. Nobody knows me anymore and I don't have any close social relationships. Not only am I rejected from having personal relationships, last year I had an extreme amount of rejections after job interviews. I had close to fifty job interviews, with no job offers, even though nothing in the interview went poorly. I'm extremely isolated. You aren't alone in this.