Another Life Truth

The Reason I am Hated by extended family for example ( Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and the Rest of Deseased Family & No friends)
Is due to how I chose to live my life and the choices I have made has arisen jealousy and hatred from them that hate who I am and puts the full blame on my life because of my decisions. For example I have chosen to do something in my life for my future and because of that choice it has caused wars and threats. Sometimes when I want to get something I remember what they said and put my phone down and don't get it anyway I just sit thinking if I want that then I'll be causing more outbursts and more anger to them so I sit and feel extremely guilty and then start thinking that it is my fault. Other reasons I am hated and bullied and put on the spot is because just by breathing I'm hurting them more and I don't know why but I don't know what to do. Sometimes I think if I moved far away I'd be safe and be able to live my life with no beef from them but anywhere I go I'll be a problem just by being there. I do feel very awful that I can't do what I want without knowing people like these are going to bring me down as long as I am alive but I don't know what else I can do but find somewhere and lock myself away and live a quiet life where I can live in peace. What do you think about this situation and am I in the wrong here? Too many memories that I want to leave my memory because this is destroying my life. 

P.S. the only family member I only talk to is my mother. There's no beef between us.