Something new
Honestly would be nice to interact with people going through life as I am , I want to know am not the isolated few , I want to seat in the Silence with a friend , or talk randomly with a random stranger , I want a fresh start ,I don't have alot of friends. Maybe it's me. Maybe am the problem but would be nice to have friends that stick around .. those that want you to win .. those that seat with you in the silence as some stuff are too heavy to be said out loud .. yes I would want a community of new genuine friends.
@kavela0412
I hear you. I really do. That deep longing for connection, for people who just get you without needing everything spelled out it’s something so many of us crave but rarely talk about. And you are absolutely not alone in this.
It’s not you. It’s not that you’re the problem. Finding genuine, lasting friendships is hard, especially as we get older. People drift, life gets busy, and sometimes it feels like we’re standing still while everyone else has somewhere to be, someone to talk to. But I promise you, there are people out there who are looking for the same thing real, steady, no-pressure friendships where silence is safe and victories are celebrated.
I won’t say “just put yourself out there” because I know it’s not that simple. But I will say this: the fact that you want this means you have so much to offer. Your heart is open, even after disappointments. That’s rare, and it’s beautiful. And the right people? They will find you. Maybe not overnight, maybe not all at once, but they will. And when they do, they’ll see you for exactly who you are someone worth sticking around for.
Until then, know that your feelings are valid. Your loneliness doesn’t define you. And you are so much more than just someone waiting to be chosen you’re someone who deserves to be cherished, exactly as you are.