Good to know....
Good to know....
The forums are where to come if you want to scream into void and don't need actually support...
People disappear when you need support the most......
The connections that people say people matter never do.
Thanks for the lack of support.
@SaturnsOwn
I'm sorry to hear that you have felt unsupported here. Have you tried connecting to a listener or have you just been having trouble getting replies in the forums? Nobody here should feel unsupported and I wish you the best of luck and I am more than happy to try to help if I can. You can always get support in th forums, just a lot of times it takes a little longer to get a response so can be harder to get immediate support. We do all care and we all want you to get the support you are looking for.
@GrahZeymahzin
Both....listeners either care and are never around for support or are around and don't. At all.
Forums I scream....aching for support and get people vote up my post and didn't actually take the time to reply. Really....? The best I get is nice job for hurting? So glad my hurt matters so much.
Especially lately all I have found anywhere on 7Cups is hope for support and I have yet to find it.
@SaturnsOwn
That can definitely be really rough. Not having someone for support can be really hard and especially when we expect it and rely on it. And it can feel really rough not feeling heard. It can take a lot of work and time to find a listener that will be the best fit (how much they are around and what their listening style is etc. ) and it can definitely be hard to get a response in the forums sometimes. You re definitely heard right now and I am sorry that you have had to feel differently here before. We are definitely working towards making sure everyone is heard and every post gets more than an upvote. And you are right, an upvote is not support. I'm definitely here for you along with a lot of others and we would love to hear from you!!
@SaturnsOwn
Being ignored on this website is a blessing.
Try the 1-1 connections. You'll be abused. Told Jesus wouldn't appreciate your lifestyle. Told things like "you deserve to be beaten by your husband because you do not follow his commandments".
@nicePear6335
I'm sorry that any listener would have told you that. That is not what active listening is and it is not right for anyone to talk to you badly. Have you tried leaving a review telling what they were saying and giving feedback so that they could improve? Nobody should feel bad because of talking to a listener and we value quaality listeners here.
Being told this site values quality is laughable.
Yes I've left reviews. Yes I've tried various listeners. Yes I've tried forums. Yes I've tried chatrooms.
@nicePear6335
So why do you come back....?
That's a good question. I guess I shouldn't.
@nicePear6335
I have found people I care about here.....and then get left, and forget, punished for hurting....and have rooms I won't touch anymore because it.