I feel lost

I have been going through the same cycle for almost 8 years now. I’ve been trying to get my bachelors degree for over 8 years but there’s always a problem. I was originally in Canada but due to financial difficulties, I filed for asylum and got deported and now I’m back in Nigeria at a university trying to complete my degree but due to covid 19, I lost a year again which prolonged my graduation year. I am trying to start up a business on the side but it doesn’t move. I started a new business and I fell into the hands of a scammer which has disabled all my accounts including personal Instagram account and any new accounts I create. This has been really mentally exhausting for me. I feel there’s no way out of these troubles. I don’t know how to better my life again. I filled so many appeal forms on Instagram to fix the issues but I get no response. My relationship on the other hand, my boyfriend is not a good listener/ communicator. He’s not emotionally intelligent. He’s very inconsistent, sometimes he’s there for me and other times he’s no where to be found. He keeps mentioning he just wants to be like a brother to me but his actions are the opposite. I met his whole family and he introduced me as his girlfriend. I’m so confused. I’ve tried to talk about it but he doesn’t really say anything that helps. He would rather let go than talk about it. My parents on the other hand are separated. My dad is comfortable but I don’t like how my mother, brother and sister are living. They live like poor people and my mum thinks they are comfortable. I know my siblings are not happy. I wish I can do something to

change that. I tried talking to my dad but my mum will never let him have the kids and the whole family members think the new wife is evil.