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What do you hate about yourself?

User Profile: cosmicjellyfishqueen
cosmicjellyfishqueen September 8th, 2016

Depression is bizarre in how in alters the way we think. We may know logically that it is our depression making us think this way but knowing that doesn't invalidate it. So write down what exactly you hate about yourself, let it all out. Once you do look back at what you wrote. Hopefully documenting your thought process will make it easier to work through your issues. Plus we will all be here to help.

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User Profile: lycan9826
lycan9826 April 30th, 2019

1. That I am honest all the time. This is why my social life is messed up and why my best friends are shunning me.

2. That I feel guilt/shame anytime I even think of treating myself in any way.

3. That I even thought I had any right or business having romantic feelings or even a crush on anyone ever.

4. That I even think of having fun in any way while unemployed.

5. That I procrastinate on certain things, like my skill set and returning phone calls.

6. That I don't perform tasks immediately when asked.

7. That I won't just settle for shit, suck it up and be a okay with a future I want no part of.

8. That I won't just give up on reconciliation with my best friends even though everyone else wants me to.

9. That my flaws clearly outweigh any positives of mine and thus is why employment in my industry and not being alone forever is borderline impossible and why my friends hesitate in being around me.

10. That I feel I am a bother, burden, annoyance to my friends.

User Profile: jazmine1986
jazmine1986 April 30th, 2019

hate myself have feelings for "him" , he's a married man so 😨 that one of this day i might lose him as a friends . recently i had become his wife's friend in facebook , please DON'T judge me because i don't have ANY evil intention to break his family as i'm trying my best to treat him as a friend & nothing else .

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User Profile: perpetualfear
perpetualfear July 4th, 2019

@jazmine1986

It's okay to have these feelings. You are neither the first or last person to. The main thing is to truly love you must understand his feelings as well. Embracing those feelings won't be easy and may even hurt a little but they will make you stronger for it.

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User Profile: unassumingOak5035
unassumingOak5035 April 30th, 2019

I hate myself becsuse im gay

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User Profile: easyWater4109
easyWater4109 May 7th, 2019

@unassumingOak5035

I hope you can see that society makes you think you should hate that, but you dont have to feel that way. Who you are is ok. Society is and will always be a judgmental place where no one is left unscathed. You cant win so you might as well just live and be yourself. Above all, be happy and remember -screw society or shell screw you.

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User Profile: Mesop
Mesop May 1st, 2019

I hate the outside and the sadness inside. I hate the body I was supposed to grow into and the weight I can't stop checking and the face that never changes for the better. I hate the fact that I can't look in a mirror or camera without feeling any joy I had disappear in a moment. I hate my open bleeding heart and I hate my need for someone, anyone to love me. I hate everything bout me that I can't change.

User Profile: Mihle
Mihle May 9th, 2019

everything basically i hate how i

User Profile: JaytheNinja
JaytheNinja May 9th, 2019

I hate how I see myself- I see myself in a very negative light, and I can

User Profile: Rookinson
Rookinson May 15th, 2019

Everything.

User Profile: SakoombaKero
SakoombaKero May 15th, 2019

I hate that I am not a better person, I hate that I do not have the strength of character to get unstuck and move on, I hate about myself that I do not know the meaning of life...

how much I'm scared of conection

User Profile: Lydiarose85
Lydiarose85 May 15th, 2019

What I hate about myself is my body. After I found out that my now ex husband left me for a skinnier woman.. but yet shes homeless and all so.. its taxing on my emotional health.

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User Profile: sociableTiger1633
sociableTiger1633 May 16th, 2019

Many people have different views of beauty...I prefer woman who like to eat hamburgers rather than need to eat a hamburger.🍔@Lydiarose85

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