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What do you hate about yourself?

User Profile: cosmicjellyfishqueen
cosmicjellyfishqueen September 8th, 2016

Depression is bizarre in how in alters the way we think. We may know logically that it is our depression making us think this way but knowing that doesn't invalidate it. So write down what exactly you hate about yourself, let it all out. Once you do look back at what you wrote. Hopefully documenting your thought process will make it easier to work through your issues. Plus we will all be here to help.

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User Profile: brightField7213
brightField7213 July 21st, 2017

Hate too much of myself and wonder how I'm still here, then realize I'm just scared

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User Profile: SmileyPower
SmileyPower September 6th, 2017

@brightField7213

I'm sorry to hear you feel this way about yourself. You can always message if you need to talk :)

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User Profile: Lovedone
Lovedone July 23rd, 2017

That the weight of my past is collapsing my spine, & I'm dying outside in my electric wheelchair, homeless with nobody to even care and/or notice when I'm gone.

I hate myself because it's all my own fault.

All of it.

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User Profile: KetonRamazan
KetonRamazan September 17th, 2017

@Lovedone

I think the spiritual cancer of our age is not getting rid of the past.
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Do you know who can not get rid of in the past? Depressive people; those who do not know how to forgive themselves and those who are not aware of their feelings.Like me.

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User Profile: GhostlntheShell
GhostlntheShell July 23rd, 2017

Life could have all been better, if it hadn't been for me

User Profile: hopelessgirl2410
hopelessgirl2410 August 30th, 2017

I hate being so dreamy... that has made me feel so hopeless lately... like anything of whatever I imagine is going to happen.

Am I that ugly? Did I thought I was kind of pretty and then I just wasn't?

I hate that I really think I'm looking good and then I look at myself and see that I'm not.

I hate to cry every single night because of things I don't know or because I feel so futureless... I hate to doubt about myself... I hate being anxious because of people.

I hate that in my country I need to wait 2 months to get a psychologist date... and I feel I really going to fall down if I don't even try with this kind of things.

I hate myself. THAT'S IT... I tried to change it but it just went stronger.

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User Profile: itsmesara
itsmesara August 30th, 2017

@hopelessgirl2410 I relate to this so much! I'll find myself daydreaming / fantasizing about the future and then all of a sudden I start to feel crap like none of that's ever going to happen! Also I'll be feeling confident and then it will hit me!

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User Profile: Bushraaa
Bushraaa September 3rd, 2017

The thing I hate about myself is that I keep myself isolated even when I feel so alone and not being expressive about my feelings.

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User Profile: KetonRamazan
KetonRamazan September 17th, 2017

@Bushraaa

However, it is a common disease like cardiovascular diseases, like diabetes, to not abandon the past which is the beginning of our spiritual problems and to live in the shadow of the past.When I think past I'm stress. İf you want I'm ready to listening.

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User Profile: Bushraaa
Bushraaa September 17th, 2017

@KetonRamazan Thanks for offering help, I will surely drop a pm to you! Stay awesome! 💕

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User Profile: RollerGhoster
RollerGhoster September 5th, 2017

I hate that I get stressed very easily.

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User Profile: SmileyPower
SmileyPower September 6th, 2017

@RollerGhoster

Sorry to hear you get stressed easily. I can understand how that my feels. What are some coping ways you have tried before and helped?

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User Profile: SmileyPower
SmileyPower September 6th, 2017

@SmileyPower

may* feels

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User Profile: rationalFriendLOL
rationalFriendLOL September 6th, 2017

Everything

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User Profile: SmileyPower
SmileyPower September 6th, 2017

@rationalFriendLOL

Oh sorry to hear about that. What are 3 things you like about yourself?

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User Profile: donutsandbooks
donutsandbooks September 6th, 2017

I think too much. Every second I am not doing something, I am thinking my my thoughts off. All it does is hurt me, but I cannot do anything about it.

I can never make up my mind. About anything. I think so much to the point where I cannot make simple decisions.

My mood changes too often. I over analyze everything. I'm not a likeable person. I get lazy too much. I can have a bad temper. I get angry of dumb things. I look serious all the time and I feel like it scares people off. I have the inability to speak without mixing up my words due to nervousness. I'm not even good at things that I am passionate about. I'm either too quiet or too loud.

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User Profile: Nowhour
Nowhour January 1st, 2018

@donutsandbooks

Wow you just described me amazing I thought I was alone in these kind of thoughts

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User Profile: Amron
Amron September 6th, 2017

I spend too much time hating myself for not being perfect. I feel too much and I hate that because of it I cry a LOT!

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User Profile: SmileyPower
SmileyPower September 6th, 2017

@Amron

Its okay to cry and Its okay not being perfect. Sometimes when being overwhelmed and/or having lots emotions going on we mostly think negatively about ourselves. I can understand how that may feels. You are more than welcome to message me if you want to talk :)

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User Profile: Amron
Amron September 7th, 2017

@SmileyPower I know it should be ok...but that is so hard to achieve...being ok at not being perfect I mean...specially if all your life you have been told that in order to be loved you need to be the perfect woman...and the guy you love wants to be with beautiful people, actresses and models... I feel trapped in quick sand most of the time with not desire to find a way out...

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User Profile: HopefulMapa
HopefulMapa September 7th, 2017

I hate my body. My big feet, my chubby belly, my dark thick whiskers, my eyes (I'm colorblind).

I'd be so happy if I could just remove my brain and implant it into a female body.