Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

What do you hate about yourself?

User Profile: cosmicjellyfishqueen
cosmicjellyfishqueen September 8th, 2016

Depression is bizarre in how in alters the way we think. We may know logically that it is our depression making us think this way but knowing that doesn't invalidate it. So write down what exactly you hate about yourself, let it all out. Once you do look back at what you wrote. Hopefully documenting your thought process will make it easier to work through your issues. Plus we will all be here to help.

2069
User Profile: Talone10
Talone10 December 24th, 2017

I hate being insecure.

User Profile: Alyssa84
Alyssa84 December 24th, 2017

Wrong decisions

User Profile: Annasear
Annasear December 24th, 2017

A healthy listener wouldnt posit this question. Guests deserve healthy, trained listeners. Neither of which are available on this site. This site is a disaster waiting to happen GLEN.

User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 December 24th, 2017

nothing,I am the best xD

3 replies
User Profile: conscientiousPineapple1782
conscientiousPineapple1782 December 28th, 2017

@Karasuno07

lol

User Profile: affectionateCity5267
affectionateCity5267 December 31st, 2017

@Karasuno07 Gimme some part of that confidence.

1 reply
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 December 31st, 2017

@affectionateCity5267 well,I really ain't that confident but when you keep saying that you do achieve a certain level of confidence.Try trying it ? :D

load more
load more
User Profile: teleah70
teleah70 December 28th, 2017

I hate i fight this feeling of worthlessness every day, wish i could see my worth as i see worth in others.

4 replies
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 December 31st, 2017

@teleah70 Well you can't expect to win a fight all together.Let's overcome that feeling bit by bit. :)

4 replies
User Profile: carefulCurrent8337
carefulCurrent8337 December 31st, 2017

@Karasuno07 i have felt this way many days and my battle is stil ongoing

2 replies
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 December 31st, 2017

@carefulCurrent8337 I understand,have you tried setting up goals every day and rewarding yourself when you complete it later in a healthy way.

Story time///

I was going through a bad phase once so simple things like eating lunch and taking a shower was VERY difficult for me

so I put them under goals and I rewarded myself even for trying to eat

and it worked wonders.

If possible,try doing that :)

2 replies
User Profile: carefulCurrent8337
carefulCurrent8337 December 31st, 2017

@Karasuno07 maybe i shouldl try that , it could be helpful, because most days i have a hard time getting out of bed to start my day off

2 replies
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 January 2nd, 2018

@carefulCurrent8337 sure tell me about how did it go later :)

1 reply
User Profile: carefulCurrent8337
carefulCurrent8337 January 6th, 2018

@Karasuno07 I have taken baby steps , and i have failed for te most days , but now there is a change i started to want to have a reason to get out of bed the past couple of days so maybe there is something happening

load more
load more
load more
load more
load more
load more
User Profile: Irene4852
Irene4852 December 28th, 2017

​​​​over dependency i cant get things done alone

4 replies
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 December 31st, 2017

@Irene4852 I understand,we all need support in some or other way but if you are worried about you being dependent on people that's a good sign as you WANT to be independent.Many people take support for granted and never try to improve.

Let's become independent bit by bit ^^

2 replies
User Profile: Irene4852
Irene4852 December 31st, 2017

@Karasuno07 thank you . ​im trying to improve on this, its very difficult and foreign, but taking baby steps smiley i hope at one point I'll be on 7 cups saying i was able to accomplish this .

2 replies
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 January 2nd, 2018

@Irene4852 yes ^^ hang in there.I am looking forward to that day :)

1 reply
User Profile: Irene4852
Irene4852 January 2nd, 2018

@Karasuno07 me too laugh thank you !

load more
load more
load more
User Profile: patientJet1510
patientJet1510 January 1st, 2018

I am just the same no confidence

1 reply
User Profile: Irene4852
Irene4852 January 6th, 2018

@patientJet1510 Oh no , but do not worry ,we will get through this step by step, one day at a time smiley

load more
load more
User Profile: Popitzik
Popitzik December 28th, 2017

I don't hate me but I want to improve some things in myself hehehehe

1 reply
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 December 31st, 2017

@Popitzik That's a healthy way of thinking,good job ^^

load more
User Profile: sterngedanken
sterngedanken December 28th, 2017

My decisions, my appearance and my thoughts

User Profile: affectionateCar8290
affectionateCar8290 December 28th, 2017

I can't hate someone because of my forgetfulness.

I am bad of expressing things with words

I can't control my emotions

1 reply
User Profile: Karasuno07
Karasuno07 December 31st, 2017

@affectionateCar8290 But you seem to be trying,you putting up a thread here is expressing yourself,Good job ^^ every little step counts.

load more
User Profile: CuriousHippo
CuriousHippo December 28th, 2017

I hate that I can't seem to see any good qualities in myself, and that I have no patience for my own failures.

Most of all I hate what I tell myself when my friends all get together but don't include me. I end up telling myself it's because I'm a garbage person that nobody wants to associate with. Maybe it's true, maybe it isn't. Who knows. Maybe they just don't want to be around a negative, depressed person.