Abusive spouse
dear friends , hand in heart, I humbly ask for advice , when I was down , my now then GF and now spouse , she treats me horribly because she lent me money when I was in bad shape and I try now to care best of her for several years but she is breaking my spirits and I allow it because if not she screams and gets violent. i am living with a monster. how can i survive this?.
@eoliva
As for we become aggressive and hurtful as we are afraid or feeling hurt, can you consider why is she possibly be feeling this way?
That would be somewhere to start wondering where things got this way.
@eaterofwords85
The important thing here is not WHY, but the fact that she is actually treating him badly. She should communicate better and not hurt him, no matter what the reason is.
@MorningDewHorizon
Sorry, I might have missread
@eoliva
I'm truly sorry! The way your spouse is treating you is not right. You absolutely shouldn't have to put up with that. If she becomes violent physically or emotionally, that is abuse. Please take care of yourself!
Sending hugs!
