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A cry for help

User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 August 25th, 2023

When there is no help to cry for you often don't scream for help. Because you know help won't come crawling to you. Plus why scream for something you will never get. Some people think that my diary threads or my posts are a cry for help. They often show empathy and .. understanding.

Sometimes I'm so confused wheather or not I really want anyone's help. Wheather that person will tear me apart or truly love me or care. Or wheather I have such a need for someone to care because when I seek lonlieness I end up hating it. When I seek help I end up regretting it. People it's almost like everyone torments me in the same *** cycle I've always been in.

And wheather I cry or I scream. It won't make any difference. Because the only one standing will be me. Alone.

No one stands by me.

Its all just...

Temporary.

No one stays.

No one leaves.

No one stands.


Bunny

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul August 25th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 This is so relatable Bunny 💙 Sometimes we get so used to having to deal with everything by ourselves that when we do find the strength or courage to ask for help we don't know what to do with it when it does come. It feels - overwhelming?

Sometimes the things we write are just thoughts and feelings with no actual cry for help - maybe people just see it that way? Maybe we're afraid to come across as clingy or needy?
*Safe hugs if that's ok* 💙

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 25th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul

*Hugs if okay*🥺


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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul August 25th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 *big hugs* 💙 thank you 😊

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User Profile: LoveMyMoonflowers
LoveMyMoonflowers August 25th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

*sends hugs for bunwee if ok*


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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 25th, 2023

@LoveMyMoonflowers

*Hugs tightly* 💜🥺

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 August 25th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 😞 aww sweetie. You know what it doesn't matter where we came from, what happened, what life we've led. We all hurt, we all bleed the same ways. It's ok to not know what help it connections are right for you. Emotions and feelings can be very hard to understand. But we all deserve compassion and love. Please be safe ❤❤ gives you giant tiny hug

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 25th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 *Hugs if okay* thank you 💜🥺🥺🥺

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User Profile: impartialLime3259
impartialLime3259 August 25th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

hi I really hope everything goes well for you. Everyone deserves to have someone by them during tough times. Everyone should have someone to be close with and I hope you have that too! I’m here if you need me!

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 25th, 2023

@impartialLime3259

Thank you 🥺🥺💜

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 August 26th, 2023

People can always disappoint you, here and elsewhere. Then that not trusting people means that the bad story gets further engrained. I am so sorry for the pain that you are suffering.

Know that there are people here who will engage you regularly and even build a real friendship with you I am ALWAYS willing to do that if you want.

If you start telling me your story in this thread, I will respond once a day, every day. It doesn't make a difference what you say, whether you feel like you are complaining or not. I only miss a day every so often when my own life gets a little overwhelming, But I haven't missed more than that in years. There are certain people who I have been in contact with for years on a daily basis.

So try me out. @amiableBunny4016

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 26th, 2023

@bestVase7265

heya, thank you so much. this means alot to me 💜 your so kind!

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 August 27th, 2023

So how was life today?@amiableBunny4016

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User Profile: MairaAcharaya
MairaAcharaya August 26th, 2023

Honestly, I'm not blaming you for your Problems, BUT you must be careful while seeking for help. You have to see whether the person is trustworthy or not and build trust worth that person. I have gone through similar stuff too. That's why I'm more choosy when it comes to making friends.

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User Profile: MairaAcharaya
MairaAcharaya August 26th, 2023

With*

User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 26th, 2023

@MairaAcharaya

sometimes the people who were supposed to protect you, help you grow, learn, who brought you up, end up tearing you apart. its just a matter of time.

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User Profile: oliveTree4069
oliveTree4069 August 26th, 2023

i totally understand what you’re going through! it’s all just temporary everyone leaves because I have too many problems, or I’m too much. It’s so hard to accept help because it feels like people think they understand you, but they don’t. But also, it’s scary because you don’t really know if they want to help you, or if they’re just going to leave once you get attached. I really hope that you can get through whatever it is you’re going through. Even though it sucks, some day, things will get better. I really hope so at least, I wouldn’t know, but that’s what I tell myself everyday.

-Lucy :)

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 26th, 2023

@oliveTree4069

thank you so much. i appreciate your message/response. 💜

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User Profile: RakyTacky
RakyTacky August 26th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

Hey, I hope you're doing okay and i hope things get better and better. It's not fair that people have to go through this much. And sometimes asking for help is tough, it takes courage, but its really much better than walking through everything alone. And if those people who you seek help to, end up ignoring or ghosting or does anything mean, then its okay, let em go, they never deserved you anyways. Just associate yourself with those who will stay and help. Google does say that bunnies are social animals and live in groups lol.

Anyways, have a good day you amiable little bun bun :D

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 26th, 2023

@RakyTacky

haha💜aww thank you. also im not great at being social 😜 but thank you for all your support! you are very much appreciated💙

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User Profile: RakyTacky
RakyTacky August 26th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

you can thank me by not giving up bunnyyy
Also, ur previous pfp was more cheerfulllll

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP August 26th, 2023

@RakyTacky

Lol ✨

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User Profile: iwantacoffee2009
iwantacoffee2009 August 26th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

I won't say the classic supporter line...just...I really get it...I'm sorry that we're not the only ones feeling like that