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Can’t drive

User Profile: Curlyheart
Curlyheart March 12th, 2025

So depressed I still can’t drive no support parents helped all my siblings. Lessons are expensive and I could never afford them . I feel like I wasted a decade but not learning and missed out on opportunities. SMH moved to another city and didn’t get to enjoy it. Unfortunately it looks like I will have to 10000 lessons before I pass. I’m so embarrassed I can’t drive either

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 March 12th, 2025

@Curlyheart

        There is nothing to be embarrassed about ,,,,many people have not learned to drive or took extra time to learn. Have you addressed the fears or thoughts behind your putting this off?     While your parents helped your siblings at the time they learned the putting it off was your choice for whatever held you back ... 

When I learned to drive I was making it much harder then it needed to be.   There are many drivers who are hesitant or avoid for example heavy traffic/ freeways  or unfamiliar areas etc.   Many times I avoided places until i did it and it was NOT as bad as I assumed. 

Once you tell yourself "i got this" and not let what if's hold you back .... it is easier to be open to learn.



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User Profile: Curlyheart
Curlyheart OP March 15th, 2025

It was my choice they stopped helping me

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