Could this be a part of a midlife crisis

I am in my early 40's and for the past two weeks, I have been experiencing some depression.   A few reasons why I am wondering

1. I recently got my bachelor's at 39 and I am using my degree.  Rather, I have been working at the front desk.   I am upset because I would have liked to have used my degree

2. I have autism and I feel like a lot of people have either given up on me or underestimated me.

3. Earlier this morning, I was the first person who arrived at work and I got here and started crying profusely.  I also threw my drink across the floor and yelled at the top of my lungs before anyone got here.  

However, I have also been going through a very rough time within the past year.

A. My condo flooded

B. I could not get someone to clean up the mess

C. When I did the insurance would not cover it

D. The HOA board stabbed me in the back after making it sound like they wanted to help me.  They also refused to file a claim on their insurance.     The reason why I say this is because a leak was caused by one of the external faucets