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User Profile: Curlyheart
Curlyheart September 22nd, 2025

Really disappointed I still have the problems I had when I first started on here I wish I had people in my life to support me . Also therapy has been a waste of time for me

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 September 22nd, 2025

@Curlyheart

        The thing about mental health  like depression etc............ there is no goal post or really defined progress points... i mean if you break your leg ... x-rays show as it heals,   But in our feelings and thoughts there is no measuring of how we are doing.    Even as we feel a bit better we can talk ourselves right back to the starting line.   We are in control.   what works for some people  does not work for all people. 

       Therapy,  I found only works as well as we let it..... Example  I wanted others to change..... but the only person I have the ability to change is myself and how I react to others.   That frustrated me and I fought the concept and wanted others to change.... once I let go of "it is NOT me"  things got better.   

User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon October 25th, 2025

@Curlyheart heyy coming here after your post in Amanda's thread

I'd love to talk with you and get to know you 

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User Profile: Curlyheart
Curlyheart OP October 26th, 2025

I would be open to that

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon October 26th, 2025

@Curlyheart Do you want to open a pen pals thread or talk in this thread 

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User Profile: Curlyheart
Curlyheart OP October 26th, 2025

I have no idea how to do that

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User Profile: chillmoon
chillmoon October 26th, 2025

@Curlyheart actually I don't know either 🥲😂.  @Amanda84 can you help please 

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User Profile: Curlyheart
Curlyheart OP October 26th, 2025

I only use this app on my phone

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 27th, 2025

@chillmoon

There's a community called pen pals, you like the community and then you make a thread specifically to the person you wish to talk to 🥰

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