Family issues :,)

Currently I am only 24 & I am dealing with alot of problems involving my family. It’s so much that it’s affecting my relationship with my boyfriend bc I take my anger out on him. My family puts me down and even though I know I have alot to live for.. they make me feel like I’m useless and not meant to be here. I go to school, just bought my cash car, and I have a job AND I move in my first apartment in December which is my bday month , but they making sure I don’t have a good time up until I move in my own. This is really affecting my life. My mom and sister put me out 24/7 when some don’t go their way & I am very respectful. I treat everyone’ around me with care and love & I make sure that this don’t turn me cold. My heart can only take so much tbh