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Feeling lost and depressed

User Profile: 13littlefox
13littlefox September 10th, 2025

I recently moved out of state to start over and have a chance for a new change. I feel like now I don’t really like the area. My job is super stressful and I can’t stand the environment. I feel like I’m always looking for this way out like the grass is always greener and it never is. I’m sick of this work cycle where everyone is rude. Furthermore a few people have told me how they don’t like the area and if I do after a year I won’t like it anymore and that makes me feel like I don’t like it. I been here for just a few months and I feel like I have instant regrets and a made a mistake with my life. Can anyone help on how I’m feeling or if they been in a similar situation like me?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 10th, 2025

@13littlefox

🥺

I'm sorry your job isn't satisfying you or making you happy and people are rude.

It's a human thing to think the grass is always greener on the other side.

It rarely is .

But you had the courage to give it a try and do something new .

Give it a little more time !

Or see what other opportunities are available to you!

💜🥰

User Profile: 13littlefox
13littlefox OP September 10th, 2025

Thank you for your response & encouragement I’m trying to hang in there!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 10th, 2025

@13littlefox

You are welcome!

I hope you can!

💜

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User Profile: blueLemon3704
blueLemon3704 September 10th, 2025

Moving and starting over somewhere new is new easy.

It's harder when you get older too.

The stress of work will never help .

Are you making new friends or doing new hobbies this might help you settle in more.

I made a big move not too long again. Work wise different country same *** different day. It's a lot quieter here than where I was previously but I've managed to make a few friends and re took up a sport I haven't done since school which is a nice community.

If you want to make friend online there's a friendship section here too.

Don't be too hard on yourself . Be kind to yourself.

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User Profile: 13littlefox
13littlefox OP September 11th, 2025

I have recently made a new friend so that’s good. I’m trying to hang in there and hope I can enjoy my new environment I feel worried that I made a wrong decision.

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User Profile: blueLemon3704
blueLemon3704 September 11th, 2025

That's great really is.

It's ok to feel worried about it and if it doesn't work out in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter.

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User Profile: saifHm
saifHm September 10th, 2025

I'm sorry about that

I bet to many people been through that

User Profile: saifHm
saifHm September 10th, 2025

I'm sorry about that

I bet to many people been through that