Help me
I'm feeling hopeless, and I'm scared of failure. Every day, I'm waking up for no reason just waking up because I have to. I'm preparing for an exam that I want to pass so I can get into the life I want. It's not about distractions I’ve changed a lot. I used to have hope, and I worked constantly, even when I wasn’t doing well. But I still kept going.
Now, I’m scared to even start, thinking, What if I fail? That fear is stopping me from doing anything. I don’t like living this way. I used to see each day as an opportunity, but now it feels like it’s just hard to survive each day. I always hoped and worked hard, and that hope pushed me forward but now, I can’t find it anymore, not even inside myself.
I’m sad. I used to believe in my potential, but now I feel like I can’t give any effort to anything. Sometimes I think someone will come and save me I don’t know why I wait for that. I have things I need to do, but something keeps pulling me back. I haven’t even started living, and I don’t know when or how I will.
I want to exercise, but every day when I try, I feel like it won’t give results so I just don’t. I used to study hard, but now, for weeks, I haven’t studied at all. I sleep a lot because whenever I feel tension, I just shut down.
My parents still have hope in me, but I’ve lost that hope in myself. Please help me. I don’t want to live like this. I know I can’t change everything in one day, but I want to do at least one thing in a daysomething that keeps me alive
I did have a friend it happened when I was in 10 or 11 Now I’m 19yr. That friendship felt like a ray of hope. When they were in my life, I felt hopeful, and somehow, I gave my best in everything. But they’re not with me anymore, and they’re never going to come back. Since they left, my life has felt completely hopeless.
Whenever I was around them, I felt strong and motivated. After they were gone, it felt like everything inside me collapsed. I can’t seem to get over the past. I’ve lost interest in everything even things like new friendships, chats, or calls. I keep wishing that old friend would come back, but I know it’s never going to happen.
Later, I made some new friends later. They’re still in my life, and we have a good connection. But I can’t seem to make new friends anymore I just don’t feel attached to anyone the way I used to.
@zo1289
I think you're in a tough spot right now, and it's great that you used to be so active. Sometimes we can burn out, especially if some random setback or realization gets in the way. It's part of the growth process, and it's hard to overcome. This often happens when you're doing something that's not your thing. You don't want to do anything because subconsciously you don't see the point. This is also a serious thing. And so you have the right to feel what you feel. You can't always be strong. That's okay. But you can also reconsider your goals, your desires. Do you really want what you were working towards before? Could it be that it's not your goal? If so, then your state is understandable. If not, then you're burned out and tired, perhaps you need a rest. Your goals haven't gotten worse, you just need to take a little break. And you will definitely achieve them later. And you will definitely be able to accomplish everything that's on your list. Be strong and hold on!
Thank you for your words means a lot❤️