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How to handle toxic relationship

User Profile: buluberie514
buluberie514 July 2nd, 2025

I had a friend when highschool which is in our friend group. She treats everyone nicely but not me. If i leave I'll be friendless(thought of that in past) We just graduated now, and had a fight. Now she's trying to boycott me with the group. They're my good friends..but she never treat them bad so

We quarreled over rescuing an injured pregnant stray cat. We rescued her together but she doesn't want to help afterthat. I'm caring the injure cat and kitten right now. I'm tired

Do I just leave this group? But I'll feel lonely, I don't have much friends and I haven't start college because I don't know what to study, I have no idea and lost rn. But at least I love cats. Half of my depression is caused by that friend.

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User Profile: FaithfulScout
FaithfulScout July 3rd, 2025

@buluberie514 - Do you think this rift will blow over in time? Is your friend group staying around the rest of the summer? Will everyone go their separate ways in the fall? 


If you can hold off making any major changes (like leaving the group) until you talk it through here in this safe space—that’s what I suggest. Hope to hear from you soon!

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User Profile: buluberie514
buluberie514 OP July 3rd, 2025

We chat every day, the group is always active. But she just made another one and everyone continued there, they even plan to go out now. My good friend in the group told me. This all sounds childish but it hurts, we all known each other for years

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User Profile: FaithfulScout
FaithfulScout July 3rd, 2025

@buluberie514

… and are you in that new group too and part of the plans for going out? (How many are you, altogether?)

I'm sure it hurts, and I can't imagine how it wouldn't, whether it's a split with one friend or a whole group. Are you able to hang in there with this group until you're able to see if things might settle down a bit and go back to some sort of normalcy ... or has everyone basically turned their back on you? 

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