How to handle toxic relationship
I had a friend when highschool which is in our friend group. She treats everyone nicely but not me. If i leave I'll be friendless(thought of that in past) We just graduated now, and had a fight. Now she's trying to boycott me with the group. They're my good friends..but she never treat them bad so
We quarreled over rescuing an injured pregnant stray cat. We rescued her together but she doesn't want to help afterthat. I'm caring the injure cat and kitten right now. I'm tired
Do I just leave this group? But I'll feel lonely, I don't have much friends and I haven't start college because I don't know what to study, I have no idea and lost rn. But at least I love cats. Half of my depression is caused by that friend.
@buluberie514 - Do you think this rift will blow over in time? Is your friend group staying around the rest of the summer? Will everyone go their separate ways in the fall?
We chat every day, the group is always active. But she just made another one and everyone continued there, they even plan to go out now. My good friend in the group told me. This all sounds childish but it hurts, we all known each other for years
@buluberie514
… and are you in that new group too and part of the plans for going out? (How many are you, altogether?)
I'm not in that group. We have seven, one is her boyfriend, they broke up before and I helped to get them back. The new group is she and her boyfriend started it. We usually talked in the group chat, only one keep in touch with me now. I just hated the feeling of being kind everytime but ended up getting kick out.
I'll just leave them I guess, maybe just talk to one by one sometimes. Still figuring out how to stop this depression, I'm happy when being with them(without her)
