I Told Him, "If You Don't Like Someone, Then Don't Waste Their Time". He Didn't Respond.
Meaning he doesn't like me. I just wasted my time being a fool for someone. Sending explicit stuff to someone that didn't even like me. Believe in the good in him and nothing. Just wasted my time on someone that didn't like me. If there was ever justice or karma in this world, I hope he really gets it.
@pebbs123 Hi there!
I assume that was an online conversation/chat you had with him. How long did the conversation last? Days, weeks..?
And most importantly, did he at any point told you that he likes, or loves, you?
@Al3xand3r No this is through phone text messages. He never told me he liked me or loved me. In fact, I proposed that I live with him and he asked when but when I ask to see him, nothing. I think it's over and I now should move on.
@pebbs123 - Yea, it's never a good idea to send explicit images of yourself to anyone through text or online, especially considering the fact that they never even professed to like you or love you.
Also, you did tell him that if he doesn't like someone to not waste their time, so he did what you asked. I know it sucks, but it sounds like he's just not into you, so he backed away.
I hope that you can come to a place one day where you learn to love and respect yourself more by not sending explicit images to guys for attention. If a man truly loved you he wouldn't require any of that from you.
I wish you the best of luck going forward.
The one who isn't getting it is you, unluckily. You need to stop trying to attract guys in this way. You can ONLY attract bad ones and then get mad and blame them.
Don't send any explicit pictures to anyone and don't make sex the priority in a relationship. You are so much better than that.
We have had this conversation almost weekly for months. You are strong enough to escape it. @pebbs123
@bestVase7265 I think that if I don't see this guy on Sunday, I'm moving on. I will try to find someone else.
Why see him on Sunday?? You don't need him in your life period. @pebbs123
@bestVase7265 Yeah I think I want something new and a better story. One where I don't have to beg.
Never beg for a relationship. Start by focusing on how wonderful you are without anyone. Write some love notes to yourself. @pebbs123