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I don't know how to help my friend

User Profile: SaphireLoveLace
SaphireLoveLace December 5th, 2025

One of my friends, we have the same classes and sit next to each other. She cries a lot in class and I don't have a problem with that, but when I try to comfort her she immediately pushes me away saying she's fine. Other people have tried to help, like our friend group- not all at once- but she just doesn't take support. I just want her to know that I'm there. Any ideas on what to do?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 5th, 2025

@SaphireLoveLace

She does know that you are there and I'm sure quietly she appreciates it.

Some people just don't like to deal with emotions publicly and often silence and alone time are coping mechanisms.

Continue to just be the good and kind friend that you are and shell know if she needs you , you are there 💜💖

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User Profile: DuckingTired4189
DuckingTired4189 December 10th, 2025

@SaphireLoveLace I like your cat

User Profile: ipoopcats
ipoopcats December 11th, 2025

@SaphireLoveLace

try leaving a little note on her table with filled with kind words and reassurance. she might not like being directly confronted and needs some space.