I miss my ex :/
We just broke up on Saturday and it was so out of nowhere to me, we lived together and an hour before we planned our anniversary. This was my first college relationship and I am so upset. He was an incredible man and that makes it all the worse, I don’t hate him I just want him to come back. He’s coming over on Sunday to get his stuff and he said he wished he could still be in love with me. He’s never been in a relationship longer than a month and there are so many other small factors but I don’t know how to make the pain and missing this go away. There’s a pain in my chest and I can’t stop fantasying about him coming back and saying it was a mistake. I don’t know how to let go and I don’t wanna let go :/
@Moonflower113
You do not want to let go and are thinking/ fantasizing about the relationship coming back...
Sometimes letting go and and being ready better things will come your way.... life is always changing and we need to be able to let things go because the time we are wishing things were like they were or wanting to recreate something is wasted. I think we kid ourselves that because we love them it would be ok if they did not love us the same ....but i would assume you want him to be happy if he does not feel it i doubt he can feel satisfied in the relationship.
I am so sorry to hear that. Honestly. I know losing a loved one is a hard detachment. You may not be the issue in this situation. Perhaps he has commitment problems but he will come back if it’s meant to be. If not, then I wish you strength, courage, and wisdom to find a way forward. Again, I am sorry for your pain, I wish I could alleviate it. Good luck, my fellow traveler.
