Is it normal to be afraid of growing up? ( ･ั﹏･ั)
I've talked with some people about this, but I wanted to know if my situation is any relatable!! One of my biggest fears is growing up. (｡ŏ﹏ŏ) It's all so difficult. I don't have any will to move myself everyday. All i do is rot. I can't help but think, "How am i supposed to survive on the future?"! It just feels so humiliating! What a failure I am! It makes me want to puke! Before, I used to shut myself in my bedroom away from responsibilities and only play and be on internet all day long, but recently I lost the urge to do anything. Eating, Gaming, Talking. Everything! Everything is so difficult. I suck at all of this!! If I don't try i won't fail, So I won't do anything anymore!!! I will rot and die!!! •́ ‿ ,•̀
@freakechi
It is normal IMO to be hesitant of what being a grown up will be like ..
people sometimes get overwhelmed thinking about what if 's and think they should know what they will do or how to do all sorts of things and i have known many who hide in their rooms like that will stop the aging or time marching on....it doesn't
but putting yourself on the sidelines hiding not wanting to do anything does put you behind..... facing things is the only way to see many things in life are not as scary or difficult as they may seem.
But I've tried once, And I'm horrible at everything I do! I even get scared just to reply you, because I'm terrible at talking! This is all so difficult, I don't want to do things if I'm going to humiliate myself like this. ( ･ั﹏･ั) I never asked to be born, and now I have so many responsibilities and I just can't handle them at all! It's all so difficult! (´;︵;`)
@freakechi
Your doing just fine.... all you need is some confidence i was like you too and did not want to do things wasted a lot of time and energy avoiding things that i did not know i would be good at.
you can do it somethings.... you will be good at and some you may not be great at ..... but that is true of everyone.
Thank you very much for your sweet message!! ❤️ I'll make sure to think about it •́ ‿ ,•̀
@freakechi hi sweetie ❤ being afraid to grow up, or afraid of your future. Is pretty common even amongst adults. No-one knows what's going to happen in 20 minutes let alone 5 years. So there is no way anyone is prepared to survive the out there. Unfortunately your so scared of what might be, that your missing out on what now is. Personally I think you might need to talk to your doctor, or a therapist about this. But just think about this.......
' There was a very cautious man, who never laughed, never played, he never risked he never tried, he never sang or prayed. And when on the day he passed away, his insurance was denied, for since he never really lived, they claimed he never really died "
I think this is the sweetest message I've received! I think I really do understand now. (╥﹏╥) Thank you so much, You're so kind! I feel honoured to read such a nice message! ( ˶ ❛ ꁞ ❛ ˶ ) I will surely think about this! Please take care ❤️
@freakechi I am here for you ❤ always ❤ even if you just need a shoulder to cry on ❤
