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User Profile: dynamicSailboat5643
dynamicSailboat5643 March 7th, 2025

With my whole family working and living lives now I'm gonna be by myself now so much more often.

My sister is sitting there telling me to have fun in this dead husk of a house by myself. I should enjoy the things that make me happy. Seek "balance".

It's the most insulting fake positivity *** I've ever heard.

I'm actively TELLING you that I find no pleasure in life and you turn around and tell me to just go paint a little bit? Go play a *** video game while there's a voice pounding in the back of my head telling me that I'm being a worthless waste of space sitting on my *** not working? HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO HAVE FUN LIKE THAT?

I'm watching everybody else LIVE and I'm supposed to just sit here in this fuckkng empty house and be happy that I'm NOT?

*** this life.


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User Profile: Ankush1509
Ankush1509 March 9th, 2025

@dynamicSailboat5643

Okay, real talk... You’re not out here being a 'worthless waste of space,' you’re just in a rough spot where the world doesn’t get it. But honestly? You’re allowed to feel everything you’re feeling right now—don’t let anyone tell you how to handle your emotions. Everyone else can live their picture-perfect life, but you? You’re out here facing it head-on, and that takes some serious strength. Do what you need to do to take care of YOU, even if it’s just surviving today. You’re still winning, even when it doesn’t feel like it.

If it feels overwhelming, it’s okay to reach out for professional support, too. Talking to a therapist or counselor can provide guidance and help you work through these intense feelings in a way that doesn’t add more pressure. You deserve support that helps you move forward, even when things feel heavy. just remember I am always here for you and the whole 7 cups community.......