Just trying to express myself after 2 years of feeling this...
Hi guys,
Right now there are a lot of family problems, and me being hot-headed, and nobody can understand me, I am the one who needs to keep understanding and what really bothers me recently is I kept on imagining things that I can do depending on what I am feeling. I just stare at anything for hours and my partner will just get my attention. I would like to open up about my problems to her and she just directs the conversation about what she likes and does not like. I know that there's a problem with me and I just can't pinpoint what is it. That's what has been messing with my head recently. There's a lot I want to share and I really don't know where to start.
Thank you for allowing me to express myself here.
@AnonimouslyHutch
I found if you just start sharing maybe the beginning items of a conversation are an issue or maybe when you start to unload the real issue will become more transparent....
i have found in chatting here or if i have a person to listen IRL the more i talk small ah-ha moments appear and makes me see things in a different light.
perhaps step out of your comfort zone with partner and say lets talk about XYZ and not revert to you likes and dislikes then maybe in a nice way she can see she is not allowing you to share too.
@toughTiger6481
Thank you for having your thoughts about this and will definitely try once opportunity opens where we can talk to each other.
Expressing yourself here is a great place to start. Keep doing it. The more that you can write about how you are feeling, the easier it will be to explain things eventually to your partner. You could even try writing out what you want to say to her as a letter. @AnonimouslyHutch
