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User Profile: helloGlobe608
helloGlobe608 July 12th, 2023

Feeling down and lower today.


Someone who was using me and pretended to like me called me all sorts of terrible names and told me to leave them alone now.



They called me a bit@h, an ugly worthless fat stupid lizard face and told me that I was used and no body will ever want a disgusting looking fat troll like me.


They also called me "slow" and the "r" word.


I've been hearing these things all of my life...


but each time it hurts..

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence July 13th, 2023

@helloGlobe608

Hello there, i am more than sorry to know you got offended that way 💙

It seems it's a recurring situation even, did you ever think to set boundaries and to prioritize respect stepping back when friends behave like that?

It's surely not healthy nor useful to get used to offences. Rudeness and intentional harmful behaviors shouldn't be tolerated, in general.

I am sure you are worth better interactions, would you try to see yourself that way too? 😃

I think the thing has more to do in what kind of person they are than yourself: if they have habit to offend that way it means they do it with whoever. So don't think bad of yourself at all! 🌸

I hope you can feel better soon and to improve the quality of your relationships.

Sending you good vibes 🤗

User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 July 14th, 2023

Of course it hurts. How could it not? I am so sorry that happened to you.

The thing is they are lying. Their only thought was to hurt you so that means what they were saying can have no basis in reality. When people design words to just hurt then they are just pure meanness. That is never ever true.

There are kind people out there who will support you. You just have to figure out a way to find them. @helloGlobe608