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User Profile: krisshna
krisshna June 20th, 2025

I don’t a find a meaning in life all my life I did everything for my parents thinking they should not be sad because of me , now am doing that for my husband and in return I get nothing but loneliness , I don’t know how to put myself first , am so tired nobody is understanding me

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User Profile: wahaaabb
wahaaabb June 20th, 2025

i feel your frustration i’m going through something similar as of now it’s nerve wrecking when ur stuck in the same cycle and nothings changing for the better but as humans i think it’s necessary we must have hope thats why most of us got on this site cause we have hope things will get better so ill say to you to have hope

User Profile: Voodvins
Voodvins June 21st, 2025
@krisshna This is a very difficult situation and probably many people who are too dependent on their parents go through it. You don’t just do everything for others, but you get used to living like that, and you need to find someone who would also be a task generator for you. Now it’s your husband. But in such situations, one of the most important things is to be able to find your self, your values. You definitely have a hobby, some favorite things to do, dreams. Start with that. Describe them, think about them, consider your life through the prism of yourself. And perhaps your husband will also support you when he finds out. And then there’s the difficult work of restoring self-esteem and the ability to sometimes put yourself at the center of the world. It’s difficult, but you can go this way if you decide.
User Profile: beetlesky
beetlesky June 21st, 2025

i feel like i can understand that. some of the other responses in this thread have tips that i think could be helpful to you but i just wanna say i think i know what you’re going through

User Profile: beetlesky
beetlesky June 21st, 2025

i feel like i can understand that. some of the other responses in this thread have tips that i think could be helpful to you but i just wanna say i think i know what you’re going through