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User Profile: DarkFairy0316
DarkFairy0316 May 30th

Oh my word! Every time i am planning to stay home go do nothing because I am physically & mentally tired, my sister has to ask me to go let her dog out. Today is the ONE day I get to stay home all day & just rest, & it’s not like it takes a lot to let the dog out, but it means I have to get dressed, have to drive to her house, let him out, then drive back home, & every time it’s (f-ing) last minute…they left their house at 8am, the other team didn’t show, & the coaches were calling other teams to play, so WHY didn’t she call or text one of us sooner?!?! Why does she wait till now, & text my sister, who’s already at work, then text me & is like he has to go out now! I’ve been working on cleaning the house because we’re having a party tomorrow, & I get tired easily now, on top on constantly being in pain. So for me to actually do this is quite the chore. And of course, it’s last minute. I want to say no so bad, my my sister is at work, my parents are at something for them, & can’t easily leave…so as per usual, that leaves me…WHY ME?!? Why is it always me?!?!

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree May 30th

@DarkFairy0316

All families are different.. each person is different...

I understand dealing with all this pressure to do your sister a favor.

It sounds like you may need to communicate your issues with your sister and come up with some idea to handle the situation better in the future...🌟

User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 June 3rd

@DarkFairy0316 why?! 💙 it's exasperating when everything falls on you but you just want to be a blob at home 💙

I hope things get a little easier from here on out 💙