Why my life is like this?
Quick recap about myself
22
Single
I have studied from boys school and then after that I got into college
I didn't date anyone due to my nervousness and anxiety and being introverted
4 years I spent seing my frinds hooking up and having gfs and break up and going out on dates and dining out and exploring places and what not
Where I didn't
Now whenever I go out
All I see is couples
On a date
Riding bike together
Having fun
Sharing food
Making memories and figuring out their life partner and all
And here I am single as ***
Idk why am I like
I don't think I am that bad of a person
But my heartaches when I go out literally
It makes me cry man
I don't know why this happening to me
Also I am preparing for an exam rest all are also doing something in their life
Social life has also took a hitbsince college is over and I don't have any friends either
Idk what to do
I mean I wanna have a proper conversation with someone and enjoy with someone whobi really am
@creepyengineer
That's so sweet and also tragic buddy.
I really hope you find a partner. When you find the right one, everything changes mostly for the better.
I wish you the best on improving your social situation, I can be difficult for many to connect.
Take care..🌲
I don't know what you r thinking but I just want to say if u feel that for u , u don't need a partner or u really don't need to date if u r okay not for show up to ur friends, so u can think about yourself or do whatever u enjoy in life.
And don't hate yourself pls , it's your life your choice what u want to do. Actually I'm not giving you advice I'm just saying u to think r u really want that ?
Sorry if my words bothered or hurt you .I didn't mean to say anything.
@creepyengineer … I want to try something unconventional.
Would you have something you could share with a person in this post https://www.7cups.com/forum/depression/General_2427/Heartbreak_383917/ ?
What are your thoughts around this request?
@pinkCherry1616 this is intriguing 🤨😊
@creepyengineer it's so hard when you just wish you could be one of them 💙
I think you'll find your people one day 💙 please don't give up
@creepyengineer you'll find your people one day! thank you for writing about it! i think these kinds of posts help because you are not alone in feeling this way, and it will get better.
try a new routine? or add something to your routine? opportunities are out there, it's a treasure hunt to find them.
sending you virtual hugs. you are so resilient.