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Why my life is like this?

User Profile: creepyengineer
creepyengineer June 13th

Quick recap about myself

22

Single

I have studied from boys school and then after that I got into college

I didn't date anyone due to my nervousness and anxiety and being introverted

4 years I spent seing my frinds hooking up and having gfs and break up and going out on dates and dining out and exploring places and what not

Where I didn't

Now whenever I go out

All I see is couples

On a date

Riding bike together

Having fun

Sharing food

Making memories and figuring out their life partner and all

And here I am single as ***

Idk why am I like

I don't think I am that bad of a person

But my heartaches when I go out literally

It makes me cry man

I don't know why this happening to me

Also I am preparing for an exam rest all are also doing something in their life

Social life has also took a hitbsince college is over and I don't have any friends either

Idk what to do

I mean I wanna have a proper conversation with someone and enjoy with someone whobi really am

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree June 13th

@creepyengineer

That's so sweet and also tragic buddy. 

I really hope you find a partner. When you find the right one, everything changes mostly for the better.

I wish you the best on improving your social situation, I can be difficult for many to connect. 

Take care..🌲

User Profile: saiyeeda
saiyeeda June 13th

I don't know what you r thinking but I just want to say if u feel that for u , u don't need a partner or u really don't need to date if u r okay not for show up to ur friends, so u can think about yourself or do whatever u enjoy in life.

And don't hate yourself pls , it's your life your choice what u want to do. Actually I'm not giving you advice I'm just saying u to think r u really want that ?

Sorry if my words bothered or hurt you .I didn't mean to say anything.

User Profile: pinkCherry1616
pinkCherry1616 June 13th

@creepyengineer … I want to try something unconventional.

Would you have something you could share with a person in this post https://www.7cups.com/forum/depression/General_2427/Heartbreak_383917/ ?

What are your thoughts around this request?

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User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 June 13th

@pinkCherry1616 this is intriguing 🤨😊

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User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 June 13th

@creepyengineer it's so hard when you just wish you could be one of them 💙

I think you'll find your people one day 💙 please don't give up

User Profile: bravebreeze
bravebreeze June 13th

@creepyengineer you'll find your people one day!  thank you for writing about it!  i think these kinds of posts help because you are not alone in feeling this way, and it will get better.  

try a new routine? or add something to your routine?  opportunities are out there, it's a treasure hunt to find them. 

sending you virtual hugs.  you are so resilient.