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User Profile: pluckyCoconut4376
pluckyCoconut4376 December 27th, 2025

i think growing up is weird. i’m in a stage of my life where i completely lost myself. i feel like i lost all aspects that shaped me. that my thought and feelings are changing. my perspectives on things are changing. i think it’s just a part of growing up. growing older. it just completely sucks. i have no idea who i am anymore. everything is different. idk when or why or how it happened. it just sort of did. i’ve pulled away from a lot of people. i’m pretty distant. it’s just i haven’t had the energy for anything. and no one is holding on to me either. i lost myself somewhere and i didn’t have the energy to keep on holding to everything around me when i can’t even hold on to who i was as a person. maybe this is just a part of growing up. maybe not. i hope it all works out. thank you for reading. i know ive been more active here recently and have posted alot but i just need a place to talk. thank you for anyone who takes the time out of their day to read or reply it means the world to me.

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User Profile: KindleMissie
KindleMissie December 27th, 2025

@pluckyCoconut4376 Hi, I hear you, growing up really is weird. What you shared feels very real, losing energy, pulling away, feeling like you don’t recognize yourself anymore. A lot of people go through this phase, even if no one talks about it much. It’s confusing and painful. Your feelings are truly valid. I’m glad you’re able to write it out here. Sometimes we don’t have answers, we just need a place to let the thoughts exist. I hope things slowly make more sense for you with time and you will find many peaceful moments for yourself in coming days. Thank you for sharing this. 💛 Sending much love and hugs your way! 🤗💖

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User Profile: pluckyCoconut4376
pluckyCoconut4376 OP December 27th, 2025

thank you so much ur so sweet💞

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User Profile: KindleMissie
KindleMissie December 27th, 2025

@pluckyCoconut4376 you are always welcome lovely soul! 😊💖 you are the sweetest 💖💖🤗

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User Profile: ListeningKrisz
ListeningKrisz December 27th, 2025

@pluckyCoconut4376 Growing up is a hard process, we all learn it on the fly. Its a period where it pays off more to stay consistent and more forgiving towards yourself. You got this😊