i need advice
i was thinking about it this morning and i’ve come to the conclusion that i seriously just lack purpose.
maybe that’s why im not getting better. i force myself to do everything i do, it’s all a chore. most the things i do isn’t out of envy, it’s out of societal pressure.
i feel like i need to have it together, to live life like nothing is wrong. well im tired of it. i’m exhausted actually.
i need to find something that pushes me forward that’s not just following a self care routine. any advice ?
@kaleo999 "I feel like I need to have it together, to live life like nothing is wrong. Well I'm tired of it. I'm exhausted actually."
These are you words and I would like to ask-- what makes you feel that you have to have it all together? Perfection in humans does not exist and there's not one of us who has it all together. But I get it, society puts a lot of pressure on us. Often times people in our lives may expect too much out of us, etc. But whatever contributes to these feelings, please know your life truly does have purpose.
Not every day will be easy to just get up out the bed and live. Some days just doing that will be hard. Some days we will go through life feeling like everything we do is a chore... but the key is to just do it! Because... there's so much beauty in this world waiting to be seen by you! And most importantly, it's because of your presence that adds so much beauty to life!
You may not always feel this way in your thinking. I actually hope that the upcoming motnings you wake up to that you realize just how special, valued, worthy, deserving, and blessed you are! You were put here for a reason and you do have a purpose in this thing we call life. But you have got to keep on participating. I hope things get better for you. I hope you continue to show kindness and love to yourself. Hang in there, Kaleo.
thank you for your kind words ; i’ll keep them in mind 🫶🏻
@kaleo999
Hey, first of all, I wanna ask that you take a breath for a second. It’s a lot to request something of a stranger, I know, but it can help.
Secondly, I wanna tell you that going through the motions just because it’s what everyone else is doing is totally normal. It’s not always healthy, but it’s normal. The dull and the mundane will always be there. I just hope everyone in this community can help alleviate it for you.
Thirdly, for something that pushes you forward, I came up with this little mantra that I hypocritically do not follow- “What I do today is the base for what I do tomorrow. I don’t want future me to hate past me as much as I do, so let’s be nice to me today!”
You are loved, you are valued, you deserve better than this crummy mental health, have a great day! ♥️
thank you 🙏🏻 i will do my best
Best wishes! 🫶🏼
Hey, first of all, I wanna ask that you take a breath for a second. It’s a lot to request something of a stranger, I know, but it can help.
Secondly, I wanna tell you that going through the motions just because it’s what everyone else is doing is totally normal. It’s not always healthy, but it’s normal. The dull and the mundane will always be there. I just hope everyone in this community can help alleviate it for you.
Thirdly, for something that pushes you forward, I came up with this little mantra that I hypocritically do not follow- “What I do today is the base for what I do tomorrow. I don’t want future me to hate past me as much as I do, so let’s be nice to me today!”
You are loved, you are valued, you deserve better than this crummy mental health, have a great day! ♥️
