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User Profile: faithfulFan1780
faithfulFan1780 August 19th, 2024

Hi i’m 16 and I got diagnosed with depression a couple years ago. I’m in a long distance relationship but It had been draining me. He acts like i’m his mother and he acts like a child. I don’t know how to explain it but I just can’t breath around him i’m walking around eggshells and he makes me feel guilty for putting me first. Please I feel like i’m slipping back into my phases. I need advice on if it’s selfish for me to put myself first. Please anyone.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 19th, 2024

@faithfulFan1780

No it is not selfish to put your self first.

Anyone in a relationship trying to convince their partner they should feel guilty about putting themselves first ......... is putting themselves first so why is it wrong? 

Anytime we find ourselves walking on eggshells and feeling weird about it those are not good signs for a relationship.