never the chosen one
What hurts me the most that i have fallen in love so many times, it never worked out. I net a guy a fee years back. He has a girlfriend that he likes so much. That girlfriend is very pretty. I don't even think that I am close. It makes me wish I was pretty. I am trying muu best to look and feel pretty. I don't have friends, I can't meet someone else, if I don't go out, I hate doing things alone. I can't do things alone bcs of certain reason. I don't now what to do.
I'm so sorry. I'm sure you will fall in love again and find the right person. For the boy who really loves you, you will always be pretty. For someone who doesn't care about you, they will never see you like this. I know it sounds ugly but it's reality. You deserve better and someone who is on your level. Remember that life goes on and doesn't stop for a boy, learn to spend time with yourself and love yourself a little more. I'm sure you're a beautiful girl. and little by little you will advance and start going out and having friends.
Thank you so much for your kind words
@archerslabyrinth
Hello, I am sorry you are having a bad time. Loneliness is dificult to manage, it probably will hurt you a lot, but you can handle this! The first thing I reccomend it is to make friends. I know it may be dificult for you, but having friends help A LOT. For example, I fell in love with a girl too, but she rejected me, I was feeling like I lost the love of my life. But with some time, and with support of my two friends, I felt like I did not need her. Some ways for making friends is look for activities, like sports or volunteer in charitable associations, I reccomend you look for one. Also with patiente, I am sure you can get good friendships :) Also, do not try to change yourself to be more beautifull, you are great and beautifull, and you dont need to change yourself, you are beautifull as you are! :)
I watched a video that teached a technique to overcome an unrequited love: you can see that love experience as a door, a door you need to get trought to get a better love, someone that will love you too. And if that love is also unrequited love, turn it into a door too. We cant control others feeling, so the best you can do is get trough the door. I know its not easy, and this situation is hard for you, but im sure you will find a very good relationship <3
One think that helped me is talk to the girl i fell in love with, it helped me to assimilate that she isnt a good love for me. You can try, but only if you want :)
I hope this helps you, and I hope you will find someone that loves you :)
Thank you for writing that i try to make friends but it's difficult, i did spoke to the guy and he is actually a great guy but obviously likes his girlfriend more so he's ignoring me, i even found out that he used to be a playboy back i high school which was a bit turn off but not enough to move on
@archerslabyrinth
Im sorry its dificult for you to make friends, its understandable. Especially if you have tried with other people, like you said in the first post. It is very good that you have come here, it is a great advance. <3 Tell your story to someone can help overcome your situation. If you have someone you trust, tell him/her your story. Maybe a brother, sister, or even one of your parents if you want. But if you dont have someone that you trust a lot, you can count on us :DD.
I just read a website to overcome this situation, the first thing it says is "accept the situation". This sounds very hard, and I dont wanna make you feel sad, but you must accept that he is not the apropiate boy for you, im sorry :( I dont wanna make you feel sad, sorry. I hope you will be okay, and please, dont blame yourself, you cant control his feelings, and remember, you have great friends here that can help you, dont lose hope! You are great and perfect! <3
Thank you so much, my brothers are busy so uts hard for them to listen to me everytime and me and my mom aren't on the same page about this.
I an definitely trying my best to overcome this and focusing on loving myself
