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Self-Love: What is something you would like to gift yourself?

User Profile: adoredHug70
adoredHug70 October 18th, 2017

Often, we spend money and our thoughts shopping for gifts for others, but what is the gift you would like to gift yourself?

Me: A paid vacation with my family in a beautiful place

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User Profile: WhisperingRiver93
WhisperingRiver93 November 23rd, 2017

I would like to give myself a couple of days off, just to draw and read. It really helps me unwind.

User Profile: amfightingback
amfightingback November 23rd, 2017

my freedom my smile... my dreams n wishes all come true...

User Profile: caringShoulder14
caringShoulder14 November 23rd, 2017

confidence!

or more time to do things.

User Profile: Kcjfksl
Kcjfksl December 26th, 2017

Being a conservative, yet sensual women, I would give myself sex toys because I like them. That's totally normal, but many people gets shocked when a quiet, well-covered woman plays with herself and is crazy about sex.

I value modest dressing. I also appreciate sexuality. But I am a very private person. Some people ridicules modesty, like it's boring and it's for people who need to hide their bodies.

Well, being comfortable with your body does not mean you have to show it off. Modesty is putting emphasis on your assets other than your looks, cause you got more than just that. But that does not mean also that I don't enjoy physical things, I'm simply aware it's not the most important. And I am embracing my sexuality, but it's my choice to keep that side of me private. Yet there are times I just want to to show those who ridicules modesty that I could be more of a freak than them. All these hate for "Don'tcha" by pussycatdolls, part of the chorus is "Don'tcha wish your girlfriend was hot like me, ... fun like me, ... raw like me, ... a freak like me." Obviously, it's a slutty song.

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User Profile: Kcjfksl
Kcjfksl December 26th, 2017

@Kcjfksl did I just posted that 😮

youcan report it, I won't be offended. Lol

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User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 December 26th, 2017

Because of my traumatic experiences (abusive relationships and bullying) I hid all my feminine features. So I'm thinking of giving myself a basic makeup kit. I know nothing about makeup (literally nothing) so will be an experience

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User Profile: PerfectStorm426
PerfectStorm426 December 26th, 2017

@Booklover95. Atta girl. They say less is more, and i myself agree. I love subtle makeup to just highten tones myself. Pretty girls shouldnt cover up. Think of it as a highlighter to what the good lord gave ya- dont be mimi from drew carey show 😂

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User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 December 26th, 2017

@PerfectStorm426

Happy to see such a comment. I think natural beauty is amazing too . I'll follow your advice and try to just embrace my natural features in makeup :)

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User Profile: beonehuman
beonehuman July 27th, 2018

@Booklover95

I don't wear makeup but I have a couple friends that are make up artists and one holds classes for women empowerment to teach make up skills and provide an uplifting experience boosting confidence. I wonder if there is someone like that near you.

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User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 July 27th, 2018

@beonehuman

That's such an awesome idea.

Props to your friends, that's very cool!

Here from what I know there is not :(

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User Profile: PerfectStorm426
PerfectStorm426 December 26th, 2017

I am gifting myself a new guitar. Ordered it last thursday, still in "processing". I have called twice. Maybe it will be here by my birthday mid next year. I know its christmas and all but c'mon!!

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User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 December 26th, 2017

@PerfectStorm426

Good luck! Just practice alot and you'll have so much fun

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User Profile: PerfectStorm426
PerfectStorm426 December 26th, 2017

@Booklover95. O i do already, this will be the third in my current collection... if it ever gets here, they must be hand cutting down a boobinga tree and carving it with an eskimo bone knife or something lol

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User Profile: Alyssa84
Alyssa84 December 26th, 2017

A kitten

User Profile: joyousTime89
joyousTime89 December 26th, 2017

I would like to gift myself a massage and a pedicure!

User Profile: MelanieDaniels63
MelanieDaniels63 December 27th, 2017

Health, love, strength to keep going to be able to get through and do my best.

User Profile: wavyhazyy
wavyhazyy December 27th, 2017

Social skills, 100%. It

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User Profile: RecoveringFlower
RecoveringFlower March 12th, 2018

@wavyhazyy

same. I get really anxious around friends so I can

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