i am not getting help and everyone hates me
i have been trying to get help for hours now and no listeners wants to help me. i have depression. and insomnia and barely can relax and just don't know what to do anymore. i have thought a lot of times of just leaving this or deleting my account but i only have this stupid site to talk to people so i can't do anything else either way ,i am not sure what to do anymore. my life keeps getting worse and i think there isn't much i can do :(
@unassumingTree5669 Hey :) It seems to be hit or miss with listeners here. I often see posts where people are saying the same thing. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. Especially when you need someone to talk to. Have you given any thought to creating a diary or journal some where? People could stop in and reply if they would want to. It's not as immediate like a chat with a listener but you would still be heard and people could support you. It's just not private as a 1-1 chat would be.
It's hard having depression and insomnia. Add in not being able to relax. It makes for very long days and nights.
@mytwistedsoul yeah i agree. i have a diary that doesn't do much at all. if i am honest i feel like i should burn it because it won't help me anyway. not like i worte that much. either way i doubt that i am getting better anytime soon :(
@unassumingTree5669
Hey, I noticed you from another forum. I too can feel lonely sometimes. Maybe we can have a chat if you are really suffering that bad from depression.
@honestChestnut7873 hello. thank you notcing that. pesonally i don't know what to say really.
Dear @unassumingTree5669,
First of all I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. It must be very hard to feel this lost. I'm also sorry for the experience you had so far on here. Unfortunately new listeners don't always have the right training to listen correctly and it seems it's getting more busy everyday. It's very brave that, despite having a negative experience on here, you still reach out for help. Insomnia and depression are very tough things to deal with, especially with no support system around you.
There are chatrooms where you can connect with other members or listeners even, you could browse the listener page for a 1 on 1 chat or send someone a message who's profile you like. Also are there selfhelp guides who can maybe help you a little but I understand that you don't feel like doing any of this right now.
I hope life will treat you better soon and please if you feel the need don't hesitate to message me! Although I am quite busy the next few days but maybe we can find a solution (for 7cups) together :).
Take care dear.
Best wishes,
Daphne
@DearDaphne thanks for the kind words, i am not sure why i am brave really. i just wanted to get help but honestlt maybe i shouldn't because i always end up wasting my time than actually getting any better. the groupchats are nothing, i feel like people in there hate me more than anything. and selfhelp guides make me worse and no listeners want to help me. plus they can't help me to get better :( and life will never treat me will. why would i even get better if everyone hates me. i don't think i should message you. i will be wasting both of our times and we would get no where. :( take care
Dear @unassumingTree5669,
No one can say anything to cure what you are going through but chatting about it, telling how you feel can help at times. I am truly sorry that your experience on 7cups hasn't been great so far. You would never waste my time. Please don't be so hard on yourself. It's okay! You matter.
I do hope you'll find somewhat of support around you, please take care.
Best wishes,
Daphne
@DearDaphne well maybe but at least i would have maybe felt a bit better, i have never gotten better with just talking and frankly no one seem to enjoy it as well. i would be wasting your time because i wouldn't feel better and i would also be getting no where. not to mention that i might even be annoying so i doubt that you want to even talk to me knowing these things and i wouldn't surprised. thanks for the kind words though. i doubt i will get better but it is nice to hear. take care.
Dear @unassumingTree5669,
What makes you think that are the right assumptions you make? You must be in a really dark place right now. It would surprise you to know that there are listeners, including me, who can relate to you way more than you think! Just let it out :).
Take care!
Best wishes,
Daphne
@DearDaphne well because things always get wore for me. i mean i don't ever get better and bad things always happen to me. well so far i haven't found any listeners like that and like i said i shouldn't have a chat with you because it would get nowhere and we would be wasting both of our times :( take care.
Dear @unassumingTree5669,
Well again, I am sorry you are feeling like this.
If you ever change your mind, feel free to message me at anytime. I don't think it will be a waste of my time. I'm here to listen so that's what I choose for. I hope you'll find some peace soon.
Best wishes,
Daphne
@DearDaphne thank you. though i am not sure. feel like i won't really get much help or just not even getting better in genral. i don't know. i could be just negative but that's how i see it. take care.
@unassumingTree5669 I will always be here if you need to talk about anything even if it is just about how your dad is going. Feel free to connect with me any time!
@Emilye315 thank you. I have just been in a lot stress and pressure
@unassumingTree5669 feel free to send me a chat and talk about it!
