Depressed and confused

And yes I'm lesbian.

URRRGGG!!! The worst possible combination! Depression and confusion! I understand. I not gonnacliche here and tell you if your not happy to break up with he, because we both know that is not how it works. It's hard to deal with this, I know. Tell your girl how you feel. If she is for you, or if she is a good person, she will help you and talk to you about it. If not, then there are two more choices, you could break up with her and focus on other things. I know it seems like you need her, but if she treats you bad , aren't there better things to think about. What the point in life if you don have fun? The other choice also involves a break up. You could break up with her, so the other girl knows your single, and maybe you can start seeing each other. Maybe if you tried it, you'd never want to go back to your current girlfriend. This is all I have, I know it's hard and you just don't break up as easy as you breath. Sometimes you got to do the hard stud before you can do the fun stuff.

AwwwwNeneI'm so sorry! Depression is such a devastating illness and being lonely and unhappy in your relationship sounds so sad. I just want to let you know that a relationship where you feel like you are being controlled, and where you aren't allowed to talk to who you want to talk to (which is not cheating by the way!) is not fair to you. Who you talk to is your business! You aren't being unfaithful to your girlfriend by trying to surround yourself with people who make you feel wanted and loved. You're a lovely young woman and you don't need to settle for someone who treats you like anything less!

I am so sorry your going through this. You can message me anytime if you would like to talk :)