Heartbroken
Hi, I'm Nicole. I'd been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years. He said he loved me and that he saw us lasting together, etc, so I trusted him with everything. He broke up with me the first week of this college semester without any warning and it really affected me. I couldn't sleep or stay asleep, eat, or go without crying. After a few weeks it got better but we are in the same classes, organizations, and even major. I finally made the choice to move on but then he came back saying he regretted breaking up and he wanted a second chance. Everything was going well until this week when he said he was having doubts of us lasting, which sent me into another fit of what I think was depression. We broke things off again today. I can already tell that I'm behaving more sluggish and I have no motivation. I'm lost.
Hey, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I've had a similar experience and in the end I had to just cut him off cos it was seriously messing with my head and no one deserves to be put through that. It's more complicated in your case as he's in your classes, so I'm not sure what to suggest but I wanted to assure you that you have every right to be upset about this and it's not your fault. If he can't decide whether he wants to be with you or not then he doesn't even deserve you. He should be honoured to have you. I wish you luck and hope things sort out somehow. I really feel for you too, I know how horrible it is.
i know how that feels, i've been through that before.. it will be difficult at first, but it will pass.. trust me, time heals everything.. i wish you all the best
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I'm going through this same issue just different circumstances but either way my bf left me for someone else and blocked me from everything so even sitting here now, I have no answers as to why he did it or if it was something I did. For me, the relationship was good. I have no idea on how to move on from this.
Girl I am going through the same thing i love him but he has an addiction
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