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My bf is such a jerk what do I do wrong? Maybe if I was gothic he will love me more maybe if I did everything perfect he would care about me. I don't know who I am.
@Lonelygirl130 sounds like you haven't done anything wrong, instead perhaps he expects too much of you. No human being is perfect, and if he only cares about someone if they're perfect...he must not care about anyone. If you have to change any part of yourself in order for your partner to love and care about you...that person is not worth your time. You deserve way better than that. Love is not conditional on you changing who you are to appease someone else. He's just a jerk who doesn't deserve you
@Lonelygirl130
When you start seeing your own worth, you'll stop seeing people who don't.
@Lonelygirl130
A relationship where you need to fake who you really are is doomed to fail in the long run. It's best if you find someone who helps you become a better version of yourself without changing who you already are. But I mean.. If you like this guy and you feel like you can make it work, simply have a real one on one talk with him. Tell him how you feel if he refuses to listen and begins blaming your weaknesses I think that should be a clear sign. That's not someone you'd want to be with.
