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I don't have friends.

User Profile: FriendlyLonelyPerson
FriendlyLonelyPerson June 29th, 2015

Hello I don't have any friends or online friends infacti have been bullyed for years now.

I do find myself bored alot so i get in like a depression kind of state and i do get trouble sleeping alot, so im usually tired alot. i don't know what to do now.

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User Profile: Snowflakeeyes
Snowflakeeyes June 29th, 2015

I feel the exact same way honestly

User Profile: understandingShade2506
understandingShade2506 July 1st, 2015

I know how you feel. Sometimes it just looks like there's no one in the world. But keep trying! Keep on talking, loving, showing interest in people. This takes a lot of courage and persistence. And yes, sometimes it will feel like it's no use and the world turns without you. But it will occasionally pay off. You will find some people who like you for you.

User Profile: generousPenny4828
generousPenny4828 July 1st, 2015

It's too hard to me make friends I don't know way! I don' t have any friends! 😔

User Profile: KidneyStone
KidneyStone July 1st, 2015

Warning: this is gonna be religious lol

so, I had this same problem. It was so hard having nobody to have fun with but the worst part is simply not having anyone to talk to. It just bummed me out so bad and I was crying and praying, begging for God to send me just 1 friend to change my life. Shortly after, I was blessed with the greatest friend I could ever ask for...I still don't have a lot of friends, but i'd ratherhave 1 dollar than 100 pennies. So my advice is to pray about it and be patient.

Aside from that, getting into a hobby like someone above has said could not only entertain you, but it can introduce you to people with the same interests as you. If you dont really have a crazy active hobby and are more like me and just wanna watch some netflix! try looking for blogs and fan chats on your favorite shows and stuff. You don't need to be alone. 7 cups is here to listen!

User Profile: blinky0032
blinky0032 July 4th, 2015

i lost all my friends a couple of years back, i came out as bisexual and allof my including the people i considered as the closest to me just disappeared, i am exactly the same as before i came out, i always have been bisexual they just didn'thear it from me yet suddenly its as if i am evil and must be steered clear of. its horrible to loose friends and the feeling of knowing you have none is so difficult to deal with, it drops confidence levels immensely which seems to make it virtually impossible to find friends again.

Steve

User Profile: Jessica797
Jessica797 July 4th, 2015

Hi, I too know the loneliness of not having any friends. I too was bullied very badly, and those whom I thought were my friends stabbed me in the back and spread vicious lies about me, when I was at college I thought I could start anew but someone from my school days came to the same college as me and began all the lies again. It got so bad I almost did something foolish, and as a result I had a break down. I was sixteen at the time, but what annoys me was the fact on the day I finished college those who had made my life hell walked up to me and said they were sorry and that this bitch you had spread lies about me was in fact the liar! I never excepted their apologies as they were far too late, the damage had been done. That was ten years ago, and I still find it very difficult to make friends. I have a few online, but not many, my mum as been my only best friend really and I guess I wouldn't want it anyway. You sound a genuinely nice person, and I wouldn't hesitate to be friends with you, or anyone on this thread actually. Take care. (Hugs)

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July 4th, 2015

I feel the same. With you. In the virtual word what ties us is a similar sense of adrifted loneliness. but i have got used to being alone. I am my own best friend. The sky the next and My mom is my next bestie.

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User Profile: blinky0032
blinky0032 July 4th, 2015

i wouldnt even know how to make friends now to be honest, i run my own company so my employees dont see me as a friend and i seem to have got to a point where i hate socialising, i always feel so awkward and alot of the time soon as someone finds out im bi i think that they just assume im only talking to them for one reason only and freak out, i feel like their whole body language immediatly changes and i get really uncomfortable thinking they are just judging me

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User Profile: wildblugem080
wildblugem080 July 17th, 2015

I'm sorry to hear that. It's rough. I feel you though. I'm not bisexual, but I have some quirks about me, and when I show my real self it's as if I feel like people just completely ignore me, judge me or just run away. It's a cold and lonely life. I just one that one person that I know I can hang out, and confide with you know. Just one, and I'll be happy.

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User Profile: wildblugem080
wildblugem080 July 17th, 2015

*want

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User Profile: glasskim1
glasskim1 July 17th, 2015

I really have no friends, only acquaintances. Part of the reason I go to work each day is to see people. If I am lucky someone says hello or good morning passing in the hallways. The one good friend I did have left? after saying good morning one day. I?m not sure what exactly I did. Each day is difficult when you have lost all hope and realize that you will be alone always.