I feel Left out and depressed
I just feel that nothing in my life is leading me anywhere and I also have no motivation to continue with my life...I honestly don't know what to do i have no friends im ugly i want to self harm i need a hobby i need someone to talk to me
Thinking of yourself like that won't get you anywhere you know x.x I know it all too well being able to love yourself is the greatest joy one can have! Depression is weak it can't match up to the blooming flower of ones heart! If you like I can talk to you lol
Looks like you are going through a lot of problems in your life friend. But, you need to understand one thing; this feeling is what depression is all about. You will feel like you don?t need to move forward. Don?t fall into this trap dear. You are not going to feel this way once you get rid of the depression. Until then, you will need to wait and fight depression. It is something that you can get rid of.
Well this is the golden rule: Love yourself. What others feel about you should matter to you if you love yourself. Don?t cut yourself. Both you and I know it won?t help. People do this because of the illusion caused by depression.
And your self esteem really seems to be affected. Never think about yourself as ugly or fool or not worthy of anything. You think it?s because you are ugly that you don?t have any friends? Then this is a wrong thinking. It may be because you never try to make friends because you have the wrong feeling that you are ugly. And those friends who look at beauty before making friends can never be called as true friends. Just take out all the negatives out of your mind and get out to the real world outside. Talk to people and make some true friends. Never feel you are alone. Until you make some true friends, we listeners at 7 Cups are here for you to talk to. And we will be always here for you. This it is said : Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it. Now what you are facing is a challenge. Face it boldly and you are all set to go. Try watching some motivational video's like "Even Eagles Need A Push" , Hear to calm music. I'm sure one day you will be proud of yourself that you faced this challenge boldly.
Wish you all the best @ BlueBarry56 
I have been feeling extremely unhappy for over a year and I can't take the pain anymore. I feel like a have demons that are weighing me down. I don't know if I'm depressed or not. My parents found my scars last year, and told me I was an embarrassment and so stupid to do such a thing. I finally plucked up the courage to tell my parents I wanted to kms, and they laughed. They didn't believe me. I'm in desperate need to see a doctor about this. I'm getting worse! My parents refuse help because they think it's just a phase. It is not a phase:(
Hey @natasha99, I?m sorry to hear that you are facing all these problems in your life. Well, to find out whether you are suffering from depression or not, you?ll need to seek professional screening. It?s sad that your parents do not understand the seriousness. This does not mean that they don?t love you, and don?t make this a reason for you to further intensify your depression. It?s maybe because they are unaware of depression and its affects. Try talking to someone else. Maybe you should consider talking to one of your teachers, friends or relatives. And we listeners at 7Cups are always here for you. And whenever you feel suicidal, there are online sites to help you. IMAlive is one of them. And these are all free, run by volunteers. So, never feel alone. If its depression, there is always ways to come out. And once you are out of it, you?ll be proud that you faced the challenge. Just consider this as one of your challenges in life. And love yourself dear, don?t cut yourself. Nothing that others think about you should matter to you if you love yourself.
I?m ready to talk to you if you wish, and there are other Listeners too.
Take care!
I have been feeling extremely unhappy for over a year and I can't take the pain anymore. I feel like a have demons that are weighing me down. I don't know if I'm depressed or not. My parents found my scars last year, and told me I was an embarrassment and so stupid to do such a thing. I finally plucked up the courage to tell my parents I wanted to kms, and they laughed. They didn't believe me. I'm in desperate need to see a doctor about this. I'm getting worse! My parents refuse to get me help because they think it's just a phase. It is not a phase:(
I have been feeling extremely unhappy for over a year and I can't take the pain anymore. I feel like a have demons that are weighing me down. I don't know if I'm depressed or not. My parents found my scars last year, and told me I was an embarrassment and so stupid to do such a thing. I finally plucked up the courage to tell my parents I wanted to kms, and they laughed. They didn't believe me. I'm in desperate need to see a doctor about this. I'm getting worse! My parents refuse to get me help because they think it's just a phase. It is not a phase:(
I have been feeling extremely unhappy for over a year and I can't take the pain anymore. I feel like a have demons that are weighing me down. I don't know if I'm depressed or not. My parents found my scars last year, and told me I was an embarrassment and so stupid to do such a thing. I finally plucked up the courage to tell my parents I wanted to kms, and they laughed. They didn't believe me. I'm in desperate need to see a doctor about this. I'm getting worse! My parents refuse to get me help because they think it's just a phase. It is not a phase:(