I'm new and nervous
Hi, I'm new and apart of my path growth is to make a thread. I've only just found 7 cups and first impressions are that I think it's amazing a real life saver. I had clinical depression from 3 years ago and it only just stopped mid last year due to my anti depressants. Of lately I am still taking my anti depressants but the sad, lonely, worthless feeling has come back. This time it has a lot to do with me having no friends because those who I thought were my friends seem to not like me for some reason they always go out without me yet I still try make the effort with them and they just say they are too busy but that's not true. Anyways as of lately these suicidal feelings have come back again and I'm just glad I've found 7 cups.
Well done for creating this post! I am so proud of you as i know it took a lot <3 Welcome to 7 cups and i hope you will find this website helpful! I am a member on here <3 i have been one for at least half a year and i can assure you that this website is full of kind caring people who will be around to support you through your struggles. I am also around a lot in the support rooms which are a great way to mix with other. I understand this may be hard for you due to the anxiety but i know i am many others will be here for you!
I am glad you have got some help with you clinical depression, however i am sorry to hear you still feel sad and lonely. I hope this website will make you feel comfortable and part of a community! Keep strong!
-Joy <3
@JoyIntoDarkness Thank you so much you seem like a wonderful person! I'm actually overwhelmed by the kindness on here. I have been too nervous to go to the chat rooms but hopefully I can work up the nerve because I do think it will.
I think 7 cups is exactly what I need right now so I am so grateful I have found it, I am surprisingly excited to get help and support. Again thank you for yours because I haven't felt very cared for lately so your care touches my heart. Thank you for your reply hoping to talk to you again :)
-TryingGirl ❤️
@TryingGirl
You are most welcome hun <3 If it would make you feel better i can come into a chat room with you so you wont be alone and that way if you feel like anyone will judge you which they wont ill be there to ort it out and support you? If you want too jwe can decide on a room? Im sure listeners will help you like this too <3 You have a lot of worth just remember that hunny <3
@JoyIntoDarkness Tonight I went into a chat room and actually talked and it was great you gave me the confidence to do it. I thought hopefully people were as kind as you and they were and everyone was open and supportive it was great. Thank you for your welcoming again Im already starting to feel comfortable :)
@TryingGirl
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU! <3 CONGRATULATIONS!
I am so glad this is helping me <3 and hun it was you you were the person who is so strong and worked up the confidence <3 i just offered a little support <3
Hey ! Welcome to 7cups :) I hope you'll have a FABULOUS time here! I'm sorry you're going through so much in your personal life right now... feel like your friends have bailed on you. I know how hard that must be to deal with. The sense of betrayal and loneliness. And even though it might not be the same, I'm confident that you'll make AMAZINGLY AWESOME friends here :)
Great job on making your first thread! THAT'S LIKE A HUGE ACHIEVEMENT :D
Have a ton of fun :D
@skyisblue thank you so so much for the welcome, kind words and encouragement it all just cheers me up and means so much. I've already talked to such kind and supportive people including yourself and I know it's different to my friends out of here but hopefully I do make some friends in here and they can give me advice on how to deal with it, cause that's what I'm having trouble with most. But because of all the people on 7 cups I am hopeful that things will get better. ❤️
@TryingGirl
I am so glad that you reached out to us with your wonderfully honest thread. I hope you find the love and support here to be able to heal your wound and go out and find new and better friend in the non virtual world
There is nothing wrong with you staying curled up with us her and enjying the love until it is time to brave the cruelness
@TryingGirl No one should be left to feel all alone. You're friends are always busy but you yourself know that can't be? People can certainly have an impact on any loneliness you may be feeling whether that impact be negative or positive. If you're putting all this time in for them but they aren't returning the favor then I hate to say it but it may be time to move on from them. But they're you're friends so you should be able to tell them how you feel. If you do/have and then they do nothing to change this without a care then yeah they may not be well worth your time.