Just a thought
Just ranting a random thought, I always found it interesting that we most often ignore the people who try to get close to us, for one reason or another, and if someone asked us why we are ignoring them, we give so many excuses, they are boring, we dont have anything in common etc, but then, we do start chasing other people, trying to make new friends, find the right partner etc, then they do leave leaving us wondering, Am I not good enough, what did they saw in others that we cant provide, we get hurt by other people action, but we do forget that we did the same thing over and over to other people.
P.s I dont mean someone in specific, Im talking in general, and that do apply to me before it does apply to any other person, and I'll leave finding the conclusion and the solution if there is any to the ones whom will read this random thought
@AmInACoffin
That is an interesting thought. I wonder how do you feel about these situations? It would be nice to hear other what others think about it too! Thank you for sharing!
@JanahisHere
Well, I do chase who chase after me, if someone getting closer to me, I get closer as well, if someone start to drift apart, I do drift apart as well, but of course, some people do have really good explaination and reason why they do start to drift apart, in this case I try to give them space, and maintain our connection
@AmInACoffin
I love what you said in your post. Alot of people including me are guility of it. We chase the wrong people then wonder why they left us and ignore those that want to talk to us. I guess its all part of being a human. This was so thought provoking, wish I never ignored the right people who tried to be there for me. Oh well, desires over brain I guess.
@loveyourself90
Sadly, all human do that for one reason or another, I'm trying to learn how to be content, its never about how much people we know, its about how good they are to us, and how much they do care, Im sorry that you did lose some good people in your life, but there will be others who will be good to you and care about you, and maybe next time they wont leave you and stick by your side
@AmInACoffin I think we often ignore those who try to get close to us because we get scared of becoming vulnerable. At least from my personal experience, haha.
@carefreeWords70
When the wrong people do get close to us, they might take advantage of our vulnerability, but nothing better than getting around the right people, when you can be yourself and still feel safe
I understand.
@ambitiousTalker2046
Do you relate to this thought if I may ask ?
@AmInACoffin
xoxo <3 AmIn
@singercrystalspirit
Spirit <3 its been ages, I miss you, I hope you are doing well and things are getting better for you <3
@AmInACoffin
Life is SO much happier for me, AmIn. I went on a long road trip and it was the loveliest decision I've made in quite some time. I decided where I am going to move (Oregon!). How have you been? Miss you.
@AmInACoffin That's a very interesting perspective. But I think it's important for everyone to focus on themselves, and treat others how they would like to be treated. 
@PromotingWellness
To some extend, I do agree with you, however, don't you think, that will make many people take us for granted, or take advantage of our kindness