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Loneliness depression

User Profile: Smileidiot
Smileidiot May 9th, 2022

Idk if this kinda depression exist but yeh that's how I feel rn . Lonely. Well uk this started around last June. My own parents don't have time me and plus they think i am a disappointment :( , my friends don't hangout with me anymore and ignore me for no reason and last my own bestfriend is trying to cut me of and has started lying to me . It's like no one wants me anymore. I am lomely most of the time :( . What should I do..?

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User Profile: tin1027
tin1027 May 9th, 2022

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Take some time to outside in the sun daily. And search up how to process emotions by therapyinanutshell. Ur strong and this will pass

User Profile: ShrutiScarlet
ShrutiScarlet May 15th, 2022

Hey @Smileidiot

Idk if this kinda depression exist but yeh that's how I feel rn . Lonely. Well uk this started around last June. My own parents don't have time me and plus they think i am a disappointment :( , my friends don't hangout with me anymore and ignore me for no reason and last my own bestfriend is trying to cut me of and has started lying to me . It's like no one wants me anymore. I am lomely most of the time :( . What should I do..?

I'm so sorry that you are going through such a terrible situation and you feel lonely in this. It hurts my heart to know that. I am not in your shoes but according to what you described i can see why you must be feeling that way. I gather that you feel unseen and unwanted by the people whom you hold dear to you, that is, your family and friends. It must be really hard for you. And yes, feeling of loneliness can be associated with depression and vise versa. I can't say the root cause of it since it's not area of expertise but If you want someone to talk to or vent to, you can reach out to me or any other listener you wish to connect to. We can explore your thoughts and feelings together, we will be there to support you through this.

May 15th, 2022

@Smileidiot

Im sorry your struggling. One thing that might help is doing things that make you happy and once you start feeling happy again then try reaching out to friends they will see a new change in you. With your parents try the best you can. If there going to be mean about it. Just ignore them. Right now you got to focus on you and your health. After that things will fall into place.

User Profile: Secretbee10
Secretbee10 May 15th, 2022

Well to answer the question, what you’re experiencing is a big part in depression. In many cases, people are not very educated about mental illnesses and disorders, a big one being depressive disorder. What you’re going through is actually very normal for those whom dealing with mental disorders, but one thing that could help is how you perceive yourself in this situation and getting a mental health screening done. If you are highly prone to a mental disorder or disorders, do some research and educate yourself on those disorders. Take the time out to understand yourself, how your mental state affects you, and how you react internally and externally. Figure out what you want to improve on and find an outlet to blow off some steam. Utilize much of this as well to educate many others, but keep in mind if you have depression, you’ll more than likely be perceived as “toxic” and negative, so in hindsight maybe accept others will avoid you for the sake of preserving a positive atmosphere for themselves. I know with experiencing depressive disorder you need and/or want a support system but others will oppose your perception because it brings them down. Not saying do certain things to get rid of any mental issues you may be going through, if you are experiencing mental issues or exhaustion, but keep in mind coping is needed, like a vacation from worldly things. Look into other ways of feeling less lonely other than relying on other people, maybe get into volunteering at an animal shelter or other hobbies. Look into seeing yourself as the opposite of a disappointment, try to teach yourself to not be bothered by others perception of you, almost as a superhuman. People will shoot you down all the time honestly, but let the bullets ricochet. Be so unbothered but still if you’re kind, stay that way.