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Losing all my friends

User Profile: QuietPastelRain
QuietPastelRain August 1st, 2015

All of my friends are drifting away and I'm becoming sad. I can't even contact them because they never text back. I feel like I'll never be loved by them again. I only have a few people in my life but I'm scared of losing them but there's no choice. How do I deal with this?

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User Profile: hayley9179
hayley9179 August 1st, 2015

hi . I have been through the same exact thing . multiple time actually . and it has always worked out for me . I've learned that as long as I take a breathe and calm down that it's all going to be okay. this last time I lost a few friends, I made new ones that I am so lucky to have. when one door closes another one opens , just remember that

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User Profile: QuietPastelRain
QuietPastelRain OP August 1st, 2015

Thanks. I'll remember this for the future. :)

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I know how y'all feel too. I also feel like all my friends are disappearing. A lot of the times I don't feel like I have even one single friend. I don't have anyone to really talk to anymore. No longer have anyone to count on in times of trouble or depression. This year has honestly been one of the loneliest years ever. Nobody wants me anymore.

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User Profile: NoleBasc
NoleBasc August 6th, 2015

I gotchu!! U need anything at all, give me a shout. We dont have to discuss how we all feel alone. We can all keep one another company. Ill be ur friend! :D

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User Profile: littlebluebird523
littlebluebird523 August 1st, 2015

I definitely am going through the same thing, love. I am so busy and seem to be always surrounded by people, but I really don't have any close friends who know what is truly going on in my life. I keep all of my friends at a distance because I don't want to bother or burden them with my struggles, but I also feel like they don't really care about what I'm going through anyway. Keeping friends and building relationships is REALLY hard. You have to sometimes be the initiator and say "Hey, let's catch up. Want to get a cup of coffee?" And if you're like me, you do that then you feel miserable the whole time you're with them because it's just so much effort and all you want to do is crawl back in bed. Having those friendships means you have to be a little bit vulnerable and really talk with these people in your life. I suggest maybe telling them that you feel pretty isolated and you'd like to maybe hang out more and talk with them. Or you could try and find a tribe of people in your community that share a common interest with you and build those new relationships. But if that is too much, don't feel guilty. It's perfectly okay and you are not alone.

User Profile: independentHemlock16
independentHemlock16 August 2nd, 2015

I've lost all my friends already. My best friend hasn't talked to me in 3 months and I don't know how I'm supposed to deal with it anymore.

User Profile: joeyneeds
joeyneeds August 6th, 2015

you are not alone..

User Profile: Shaggz
Shaggz August 6th, 2015

Yep, definitely know how it feels. Ever since getting sick with Wegener's 9 years ago, I've seen all my friends slowly fade away one by one. I now live with just my aging dad. No life. Nothing. Just day after day filled with pain, sadness, hunger sometimes, and just rewatching old movies and shows, not even paying attention most of the time. Sometimes I'll just sit in my room and do nothing for hours. Basically I'm waiting to die :/

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User Profile: NoleBasc
NoleBasc August 6th, 2015

Hey! In my opinion, telling someone that they arent alone doesnt help much. I have 0 friends and Im more than willing to be your friend. If ever u wanna talk or something, just reply to this and we can find a way to talk outside of this app. My life is spent waiting to die but honestly dont want others feeling this way too.

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User Profile: frostycloud
frostycloud August 6th, 2015

I guess I can relate how it feels

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User Profile: joeyneeds
joeyneeds August 6th, 2015

i dont have words. very alone..