One thing I can't stop obsessing about...
helloCoconut5405
February 11th, 2018
What if...
" If you were abused, youre probably going to abuse others."
I've seen this time and time again on the internet and have heard it plenty of times in really life as well. It's one of the thoughts that really messes with me. And it's one that I can't shake.
I know myself that I would never ever abuse anyone and I am always conscious to make sure I do everything I can do for the people in my life. But to this day that quote still haunts me.
It's the what ifs? What if I went off the deep end and became someone I wouldn't be able to recognize. What if I were capable of doing something like that. I know myself I know I can never become like my dad.
I guess my question is if anyone else feels like this? It scares me so bad...
CalmWhisper22
July 19th, 2018
@helloCoconut5405
I am so sorry that you were abused and that your dad did stuff. I don't think that every person that was abused will abuse others. I have been abused and I know others also and I/they aren't abusing others.
