You can rant here
I know how it feels sometimes when you just want to rant, but don't know who to talk too or even if they will care. Well I care. You're not alone! Please feel free to say whats been on your mind lately, if you want someone to talk too or just want to rant away. I will listen.
Losing all your friends really sucks. Knowing it's because they don't like you really sucks.
now I'm grumpy for an entire different reason. Dad makes a very BIG deal about recyling in the last of the house. we should have recyle bins in both the master bedroom's mini bathroom as well as in the main big bathroom. But for awhile the mini bathroom toliet been having some issues- so what SHOULD be the recyle bin in the mini bathroom been Dad's "flushing tool".. instead which means every time I have to do the *** garbage I have to sort though goddam recyling like today-a CARDBOARD BOX. and Its was bad enough when sis was here 365 days a year and I had to sort through her BEDROOM garbage for pop cans (the bedrooms don't have recyling) in there!! My parents say it's no big deal.. it just I sick and tired of having to comb through garbage for recyling because Dad can't walk a few feat to the MAIN bathroom to put it in the main bathroom recyling instead.
please don't report me I am under 18 and depressed to point of suicide being an option but I calmed myself down but I needed a place to rant I am addicted to playing video games I have probably spent 62 full days of my life on games every day someone tries to help me but it never works parents other websites like this I am stressed every day I feel like I am wasting my life but I can't stop wasting my life is what my parents say (currently not suicidal) I will probably continue writing here for a bit
I can't stop thinking about the past. It's hard letting go of the people who use to make me feel safe. I remember when I was around 12-13 I had this guy that was maybe 15-16 who use to be very suicidal and got me into cutting myself use to ask me for nudes and told me he would kill himself and I use to love him so much but now I can't forget him and I keep wanting to contact him. I lost my best friend (not dead just not friends) and now I don't know what's it like to have anyone to talk to or hang out with so now I just don't know what to do.
My relationship has not been doing so good this year, my partner and I are taking time to ourselves because of an incident that happened at a family party not to long ago, I had been wanting to talk to my partner about our little rough patch and that night he said "no that this wasn't the appropriate time for a discussion that we will get to it but not right now" and I got upset because I had been wanting to talk about it for a couple of weeks and I got upset we went inside again and he left after a couple of minutes and two of my cousins walked him out one of them we both came to advice but she told me to break up with him and she was talking to him I got upset because I was thinking " what is she possibly telling him " and I got upset and yelled "what are you saying to him" she got upset and told me I treat him like crap and to remember I was the one that came to her for advice. He drove me home and I started coming up with things that they both problaby have something going on behind my back because she told me to break up with him and he told me that he felt embarrassed and at fault for what happened. We talked about what happened when he dropped me off and he checked up on me the following day and a couple of days later he tells me doesn't know how he feels anymore and that the incident really got to him and he wants time to clear his mind we met up once at our park and talked it was nice but to me it looked like was acting different and I don't know if it was my mind being weird and fast forward to today I talked to my cousin and apologized but I also found out that they both talked about what had happened that night and that he went back to the party to apologize for what what happened that night... I'm kind of hurt and upset that he opened up or talked to her but i also don't know if I have the right to be mad since we both came to her and she knows the situation it's like you went to her but you couldn't come to me and I understand he went back to apologize for what happened but what upsets me and hurts me is that he hung out there for a bit when he told me his mom needed him home at a certain time so it's like he wasn't honest with me about that he wasn't going home, it just upsets me when he isn't honest and even though it's tough right now I'm hoping things improve and get better and that we can overcome this together hopefully come up with solutions and understand each other more, I really want things to get better hopefully , this is my rant sorry for stressing everyone out it's just I really don't have anyone to talk to, i appreciate everyone a lot.
How do you tell your parents that you're suffering from depression?
Hey... so I am struggling very bad and idk what to do anymore. I need someone I can talk to. I don't want to bother anyone but I know that I need help and that I should talk. !!!!! I've hurt myself two times now and I'm scared. I wanna fight but ...
how can I tell my parents about it ... ?
@chocolatecat55
Hey I want to start this off by commending you for sharing your thoughts, I know firsthand that it takes courage speaking up and receiving help. I relate to your situation. I was always scared to tell my parent how I truly felt. I was depressed and suicidal for 2-3 years. I for the most part, suffered in silence. I didn't tell my parents that I had self harmed on multiple occasions, or how I tried to attempt suicide. The biggest mistake I made was not telling my parents about the all the sadness that haunted me. If I could turn back time, I would have gone to them. So I advise you as hard as it is, please tell them. If you can't express through words, I recommend writing down what and how you are feeling and start from there. You can gather them together and read what you wrote or can write them a letter and start a conversation from there. Please if you take nothing else out of these, tell them. I'm sure they listen and seek out the professional help you need. And even if they aren't, I want you to know that your feelings are valid and important to me. This community and I care about you and your wellbeing, we'll help provide support and help through your journey. Please stay safe and I hope this helps you a little bit. If you want to talk to talk, I'm available during the evening.
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So few people will care if I die
so so so so so so so (infinity) tired of feeling like I'm once again floundering. I felt like I had made some progress but it seems the last few weeks as if my brain was just faking me out, giving me a false sense of security or something, "how dare you actually entertain the thought that Real Happiness might be on the horizon!!" gahhhhhhh. so so so completely overwhelmed and can't get a handle on it bc of course the more anxiety the more depressed, the more depressed the more trouble concentrating and getting work done efficiently, the less work done the more anxiety... this week trying and succeeding about half at doing some yoga and meditation - not enough that it has made a difference yet, and it is quite hard since the whole time I'm fixated on how much work I'm not getting done - not that I'm getting any done very well the rest of the time anyway. and here I am back again on 7cups as well as just spending hours researching self-organization stuff and depression stuff and anxiety stuff and and and... how many more years of this... I was going to say "two steps forward, one step back" but honestly it's more like one step forward, one step back, over and over and over year in year out....
How do people deal with having no friends? I've been friendless for a while now and school distracted me from that sometimes. Now it's summer and I'm once again aware of how alone I really am. I'm graduating college soon and still no friends there either Makes me wonder if being fake and overly cheery and never talking about personal problems is the way to go. Seems to be how most people attract others.
@Lexloveslife
Sometimes I think about ending it because I wonder if anyone would notice. Probably not.
@Lexloveslife Yes you can end it or you can change yourself and find some good friends. Now about ending I will say it is really uncool because people who gave up in 2007 missed an era of smartphones and a lot of youtube videos and most importantly 'Netflix'
. I will say it will be cool to wait and find some friends or a really good passion where you don't give a f to other people.Just imagine how sad it will be if you miss probably ww3 b/w USA and China because of that.
You can always find someone to talk to here and maybe make friends along the way. I have very little people I can consider friends in my life currently and have never make more than 5 good friends (probably less now). I only cared about doing what I wanna do and passionate in but recently I just lost motivation because I got my heart played. Now learning to motivate myself back up again.
@Lexloveslife
life can be lived without friends. You have to learn to enjoy your own company and find joy in the small things. Be mindful and know that you're not really alone even if physically the friends aren't with you. The world is full of people like us.
@Lexloveslife praying that it gets better 🌼🌼♥️
@wonderousSigns7
my parents keep saying that just because im a girl im weak and im stupid and i have to fit their perfect mold. im so stressed out about living up to everything they want me to be. they yell at me and ground me and punish me when my grades get below an A. and then on top of that my mom likes to pick on me and make fun of me and expects me to just take it but when i do it to her she starts crying and yelling at me
i just need some advice on how to cope with everything
@jemma3601
Hey I'm sorry about what you are going through, I know that must be a very difficult situation for you. I can relate as well to some extent. Feeling pressure from your parents to have perfect exam/test scores and grades. Feeling worthless because no matter how long or how much you study in that particular subject, you just don't seem to improve. In this world, the education system is severely flawed. The whole school before anything mindset in itself is just toxic. They have the whole "if you go to school and get perfect grades then you'll into the perfect college and then you will be happy" mindset. Which is quite idiotic and ignorant if you ask me. Well, sorry if I'm going on a tangent. It just angry me when parents put on this stress on kids to do well academically, without actually allowing them to make mistakes. Enough rambling. My whole point is that we all imperfect humans. We are going to trouble or cause mistakes to occur. I want you to know that the way your Mother is not the right way. She shouldn't expect you to be perfect all the time. Even the best academic students fail tests and assignments. The best way to cope is 1, to realize that you are human, and as human you are not going to always get perfect grades. It is okay to fail. 2, no matter how hard it gets, just continue to do what you can and give it your best. And lastly, if you haven't, try to get help or tutoring. There are free websites that can help provide help to subjects you are struggling with. (Khan academy, cymath, YouTube) Just don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it.
I hope this helped you a little bit. I hope you Mother becomes more understanding of your situation. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Please stay safe and take care of yourself, relax sometimes.
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