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Disneywoman
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Disney Dreamlight Valley
Hobby Zone / by Disneywoman
Last post
 8 hours ago
...See more I started playing Disney Dreamlight Valley and it's interesting so far.   I'm taking pictures in-game.   I have meet two Disney characters.  I'm not going to say whom they are.   When I meet more,  I promise to update the thread
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Came up empty for alterative topics for tomorrow's car ride w/ Dad and Mom
Relationship Stress / by Disneywoman
Last post
 Sunday
...See more I have an eye appointment tomorrow at a specialist eye doctor.   Due to the fact of where it is,  it means Dad has to drive Mom and I to and from it.   I really don't like Dad driving for several reasons and one of the main reasons is the entire car ride to and from there Dad will talk non stop in the car about the news.  I'm sick and tired of hearing him talk non-stop about the news in the house.   Mom suggested since Thursday (or Friday?) about finding  alterative  topics to talk about but I have come up empty I don't want to talk about news.  And if I talk about history Dad will take over the conversation.    I can't talk about Not Always Right or The Nursery Nurse because I wouldn't be reading or watching those things until we get back tomorrow.     
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Hate Dad Driving Mom and I to my eye appointment on Monday
Relationship Stress / by Disneywoman
Last post
 Saturday
...See more On Monday I have a special eye appointment.   Due to the location it means Dad has to drive Mom and  I there and back.   But I know from too much experience he will talk the entire time about the news in the paper.   It's basically the only thing he talks about in the car.    This is the Dad who thought I could sleep in the backseat of the car when he's talking off my sister's ear on the long drive to a shooting range.    And mom and I both know he will be over dressed so whenever there might be stops on the drive he will have the windows all the way down.   But Mom said for the car ride to find topics to talk about.  But even if I could in the next 2 days before Monday  anytime I will stop for breathe Dad will jump in and start talking about the news.    
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Dad had a hissy fit about Vegetarian Taco Salad
Relationship Stress / by Disneywoman
Last post
 Saturday
...See more So I'm making Taco Salad tonight for supper.   If it's too humid to turn on the stove I'm going to be making Vegetarian taco salad -so no meat.   I don't want to be roasting over a stove to cook meat on a hot day.    But i'm concerned about Dad having a hissyfit because of how he got mad last time when the salad was meatless.    Last time: Mom, Dad and I are sitting at the table - Mom and I are eatting the food- salad&chips. Dad is playing with his food and asks "Is there meat in this?"  And Mom has to tell him no.   And even though he didn't say anything afterwards he seemed to be really mad.   
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Mom's mad at me
Relationship Stress / by Disneywoman
Last post
 Friday
...See more Mom's mad at me because I had a can of sandwich filling land on her mouth.  It was an accident.  I was getting impatient for my 2nd half of lunch.  I found Mom in the basement playing around with the shelf. I tried to help  but with them being so high up,  the cans fell over and one fell on Mom (who was standing way to close).       But one also fell on one of my fingers so it hurts.   It's not like I meant for the cans to fall.   It's also Dad has them stacked really high on the basement shelf- and we (women) don't like asking him for help 
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Mom doesn't understand why I'm worried about the future
Relationship Stress / by Disneywoman
Last post
 August 3rd
...See more I always been worried about the future since I was in my mid 20s. (I'm mid 30s now).  I have even tried to research places to live but it's expensive out in my region.   And there's a lot of other problems -we don't have a plan in place for me should something happen to Mom and Dad.  The only plan is Luna will be my money manager but other then that-nothing.  In Feb during an argument with Mom about the future that Mom said that she expects me to move (either with her if Dad predeceases her or on my own) into an apartment because staying in the house is not an option.   But she doesn't think about the fact that I would be moving away from everything that I  been used too for 36 years- the house, the  backyard, above-ground pool, and my community- ie neighbours, and my "family" from church.    There's the additional  problem about the fact I never moved ever in my 36 years vs Mom been moving since 1954 until 1986   to US,  Korea,  back and forth to Canada,  and then from Toronto->St. Catherine's->Kingston->Dad's home town->Dad+Mom->Toronto->Oliver->Willow.  I have looked up apartments since 2018 because of my Dad's behaviour and every apartment that's not for a student is expensive in Durian Region especially for someone on Disability income.  Mom's convinced I will be able to move somewhere in Willow.      Also what about the noise? Where am I suppose to put my desk/computer (since I know from my sister having it in my room isn't a good idea)?.     I  already hate being cramped in my house even though I most of the time- get to have my own space with no noise in the computer room.    Also the only experience of apartment life I have had so far is my time at Disabled Summer Camp and that's barley an apartment-a mini fridge,  a sink, and microwave,  2 bedrooms and a bathroom.  There's an additional two problems not related to apartments.  The one problem is that currently I can't go into Toronto on my own. Which is a problem in itself because my one specialist is in there-so I want to make sure I can get around Toronto when I eventually have too but how can I when she's makes the Toronto Plans?    I know Mom's worried about me having a meltdown in public.  The other issues is I know from Development Services  that I could have   a worker pick me up and drive me into Toronto but due to issues in the past from my Dad's driving me I'm feel uncomfortable with someone driving me.    Also  that (again past w/ Dad) that after my appointment having to go "home"  and I rather be able to stay in Toronto  and do something.  
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Dad was being stupid about my question
Relationship Stress / by Disneywoman
Last post
 August 5th
...See more Background I was at disabled summer camp twice.  This time I did get to see a movie.  But due to no gallbladder I have to be carefully about not eatting fatty foods (ie popcorn).  So I didn't buy any snacks at the theatre.  So i felt leftout when everyone else was buying  snacks. So it meant by the time the movie got out and we went back to the college- I was really hungry and had 2 tacos to eat and Tacos are something I have to be careful of.   And somehow I also had the impression you couldn't buy just a drink without something else to go with it.    I came back on Friday from the camp Story i came back home on Friday.  I was talking online.  I was starting to wonder if it was possible to buy just a drink at a movie theatre.  Since Mom seem to be unavaible (I thought she was in the basement) I tried to talk to Dad.  I asked him my question.  And he didn't seem to understand I was talking about only buying a drink.  "Can you only buy pop at the movie theatre?"    And he didn't understand 1. I wasn't talking about popcorn and 2. Didn't seem to understand the concept of the fact I felt left out for not buying anything to eat at the movie theatre.    He instead he praised me for being healthy instead or  in the 2nd part "I don't have to do what everyone else is doing".   So basically I had to yell at him to get him to understand my actually question  "Can you buy only a drink at a movie theatre?!!!"  The only thing I forgot to tell him during our conversation is because I didn't buy anything at the movie theatre I was so hungry at supper time I ended up having 2 tacos.  
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Parents yelled at me for being pushy about my electric toothbrush head
Relationship Stress / by Disneywoman
Last post
 August 4th
...See more Background: When I was at Disabled Summer Camp this year both times,  we had a presentation about dental hygiene and they said that we should change our toothbrush or toothbrush head when it "looks like a broom" Story Yesterday  I went to brush my teeth after lunch  and I noticed my eletric toothbrush head "looked like a broom"  and like about 1/2 of the outer layer of bristles is gone the only thing left is the middle part. Also some of what's left of the bristles are yellow.    Mom looked at it when I told her about it in the afternoon  and she said "it was fine until the end of the month". I thought she was being really stupid.    I had her look at it again at night when i went to brush my teeth.    After I changed into my PJs  and Mom was hugging me I said I was refusing to use the electric toothbrush unless she's changed it.    Then she slammed her book shut,  slam the foot thing of the couch and told me to :Get out of the way" which lead to Dad yelling at me and telling me to "Get the f  out of there."  But come on if Mom had just refused to be stubbon in the first place we wouldn't have gotten me refusing to use the tooth brush.  
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